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Jagbender's battle of the bulge

jagbender said:
My Posts have been spotty lately life is dealing my some rough terrain. spening a lot of time dealing with reality. I am eating well and trying to get some cardio. My ankle is still bruised from the squats. I hope to resume Normal operations soon.
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keep your head up Jag, ive been dealin with some shit myself but we gotta do whatever we can to stay on track bro.
 
I am still here. I am moving out of my house Monday 3-5-12 into an appartment. Seperating from my wife. Been tough for the last 7 years. I have decided that there is no reason to live with a person who cannot trust me and who's love is conditional

Relationshipsare like glass. Sometimes it is better to leave them broken than to hurt yourself trying to put it back together.
 
^Ouch. I had a feeling but really didn't want to ask. I know how exactly how you feel since I went through the same situation twice in my marriage. I finally got divorced 3 years ago after 18 years of being married. Hang in there buddy. Things will get better and you will find yourself in a better place. But brace yourself, in the mean time, it'll get worse before it gets better.
 
x~factor said:
^Ouch. I had a feeling but really didn't want to ask. I know how exactly how you feel since I went through the same situation twice in my marriage. I finally got divorced 3 years ago after 18 years of being married. Hang in there buddy. Things will get better and you will find yourself in a better place. But brace yourself, in the mean time, it'll get worse before it gets better.
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Expecting the storm !

returnofthdragon said:
Crap. Sorry man.
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Been a long time coming to this point
 
I am out of the house as of today. won't be going back. Staying at a friends until I move in.
 
JerseyDevil said:
Jeff.... if you want to talk, message me here or on FB. I'm all ears buddy :winkfinger:
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Thanks Paul



I moved out yesterday! Feel like a ton of bricks lifted off my shoulder. My girls stayed with me and I got them off to school. Starting to make a new home of my apartment

Anyone got and beer mirrors they aren't using? LOL
 
You're doing much better then I would in your situation. Stay positive. New body, new life, I'd call you a butterfly if that wasn't so effeminate.
 
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I finally got to lift yesterday. The fitness center (joke) at the appartments has Dumbells up to 30 pounds and a bench adn a multi machine worked out 45 minutes
not much weight but lots of volume

I am glad I still have my Gym in the garage. I can work out on the days my wife works I guess
 
That's awesome. Plus the you get to see the kids while your there.

Hope you get some good rides on this weekend to relax a bit.
 
Had the Girls this weekend. Tried to play tennis with my youngest, but my ankle is still hurting from the squat incident. We enjoyed the pool and the hot tub. My oldest had a freind over, and they hung out in the complex.
I purchased a new kitchen table and am pretty well set up in my man cave. Time will tell now. I just need to sit back and relax and get my head together. The girls seem to be adapting well to the situation and that was one of my biggest concerns.
Still maintining the weight and keeping the diet pretty solid. The girls want to eat Ghetto food like frozen burrito's and ramen noodles. I am trying to get them to eat good solids foods. I make a brown rice caserole with FF cream of mushroom soup and chicken breasts diced up. They took to that pretty well. Now if I can get them to eat Oatmeal instead of sugar cereal I will be winning the battle.

I had some major steps forward in my thinking process and am going to quit pushing for the divorce and see if she will forgive me for the one thing I said 8 years ago.
Guys do not realize how long something we say will stay on a womans mind. Be careful what you say to your woman.
 
jagbender said:
Had the Girls this weekend. Tried to play tennis with my youngest, but my ankle is still hurting from the squat incident. We enjoyed the pool and the hot tub. My oldest had a freind over, and they hung out in the complex.
I purchased a new kitchen table and am pretty well set up in my man cave. Time will tell now. I just need to sit back and relax and get my head together. The girls seem to be adapting well to the situation and that was one of my biggest concerns.
Still maintining the weight and keeping the diet pretty solid. The girls want to eat Ghetto food like frozen burrito's and ramen noodles. I am trying to get them to eat good solids foods. I make a brown rice caserole with FF cream of mushroom soup and chicken breasts diced up. They took to that pretty well. Now if I can get them to eat Oatmeal instead of sugar cereal I will be winning the battle.

I had some major steps forward in my thinking process and am going to quit pushing for the divorce and see if she will forgive me for the one thing I said 8 years ago.
Guys do not realize how long something we say will stay on a womans mind. Be careful what you say to your woman.
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Sounds like things are going well with the girls.... That's great news!

I think hurtful words stay on both sexes minds, it is not unique to just women. Of course I do not know your situation, but it sounds to me like she needs to grow up and forgive something you said. I understand words can burn deep, but it's been 8 years and if she can't get over it, and I assume you have tried many times over to apologize, then it is time to move on. You are right to give her time to forgive you Jeff, but it's been 8 years. Why do you think it will be different now?
 
JerseyDevil said:
Sounds like things are going well with the girls.... That's great news!

I think hurtful words stay on both sexes minds, it is not unique to just women. Of course I do not know your situation, but it sounds to me like she needs to grow up and forgive something you said. I understand words can burn deep, but it's been 8 years and if she can't get over it, and I assume you have tried many times over to apologize, then it is time to move on. You are right to give her time to forgive you Jeff, but it's been 8 years. Why do you think it will be different now?
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It won't be different got to move on
 
Got a decent upper body workout in today all dumbells. that goodness my bowfex 10-90's are portable. I miss my rack but I will have to plan better to getr over to use it. Kids on spring break and Mom has the kids all week. felt pretty good to move a little iron

back at it slowly getting my shit together and movin on
thanks to all who have been supportive.
 
I'm always checking on your journal jag. Not going to pass you any relationship advice though, as your older and more experienced then me, but hope its working out for you.
 
jagbender said:
Got a decent upper body workout in today all dumbells. that goodness my bowfex 10-90's are portable. I miss my rack but I will have to plan better to getr over to use it. Kids on spring break and Mom has the kids all week. felt pretty good to move a little iron

back at it slowly getting my shit together and movin on
thanks to all who have been supportive.
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