Married Women

[Vieope]

why?

Because sex is a good thing and should not be contained by morality and integrity based of false concepts and dubious logic.

Other than that it is because I am insecure and depressed so I must sleep with every beautiful woman I meet.

 

[Arnold]

Because sex is a good thing and should not be contained by morality and integrity based of false concepts and dubious logic.

how would you feel if another man slept with your wife, granted she would be at fault too, but I bet you would want to kill him if he knew your wife was married and slept with her anyway, right?

so, if you agree with that, why would you sleep with another man's wife?

 

[pmech]

how would you feel if another man slept with your wife, granted she would be at fault too, but I bet you would want to kill him if he knew your wife was married and slept with her anyway, right?

so, if you agree with that, why would you sleep with another man's wife?

Same reason people make comments like "Your little girl is my little whore", because they have never been put in a place to care about someone like that.

Until they get married, or commited to someone they wont understand the possible hurt from such a action

Same as the little girl thing above. Until they have children of their own, comments like that won't phase them.

P.S. Yes my wife would also be at fault, but I could never hurt her, she would, on the other hand, watch the man die slowly

 

[Arnold]

P.S. Yes my wife would also be at fault, but I could never hurt her, she would, on the other hand, watch the man die slowly

 

[Vieope]

how would you feel if another man slept with your wife, granted she would be at fault too, but I bet you would want to kill him if he knew your wife was married and slept with her anyway, right?

so, if you agree with that, why would you sleep with another man's wife?

I can´t understand that, really. It is only love, even if it is not love it is two people getting together to be happy. It is a celebration of life.
I might change though, I don´t know everything and I haven´t experienced everything as well.

 

[Arnold]

I can´t understand that, really. It is only love, even if it is not love it is two people getting together to be happy. It is a celebration of life.

Fine, then celebrate life with a single woman, there are plenty, no need to fuck up someone else's marriage.

 

[Vieope]

Fine, then celebrate life with a single woman, there are plenty, no need to fuck up someone else's marriage.

Emotions can not be controlled so easy, I don´t choose to whom I gonna be attracted next. I should not like someone because they are in some made up concept like marriage? That is just depressing.

 

[pmech]

Disrepectful!

 

[Vieope]

Disrepectful!

No, different age group and different culture.
Why do you need to own somebody? There are a lot of people in this world that you could love but your mind might be closed to that possibility already.

 

[gr81]

first of all if you are sleeping with a married women, YOU are not the one fuccin up a marriage, SHE is. If she is going out and cheating then does it matter who she does it with, she is still doin it. Fucc it married women are the best, you can't really pay them attention b/c they have a life already, you can't buy them shit or do anything like that. Its just no strings attached sex and they are hungry for it b/c there husband ain't giving em the dick. Its her decision to go and cheat, not yours. Whether she does it with you or some random other person is a mute point. I dont understand why all you guys are like, well if that happened then I'd kill the guy. Its yoru bitch thats cheating and is scandalous, she is to blame and maybe you are to, not some other guy. please. this is ridiculous, and lets not act like marriage is such a holy sanctomony. People get married nowadays at the drop of a hat. Yes its sad that a family is in turmoil, but you can't look at teh cheating as the problem, there was a problem with the family long before anyone cheated, ya dig. lets address the real problem and not displace blame if we are really gonna talk about it

 

[Arnold]

No, different age group and different culture.
Why do you need to own somebody? There are a lot of people in this world that you could love but your mind might be closed to that possibility already.

you do not have marriage in Brazil?

it is not ownership, it is a comittment, and you should respect others comittments.

you're right there are a lot of people in this world, so stay away from the ones that are married.

 

[Arnold]

first of all if you are sleeping with a married women, YOU are not the one fuccin up a marriage, SHE is. If she is going out and cheating then does it matter who she does it with, she is still doin it. Fucc it married women are the best, you can't really pay them attention b/c they have a life already, you can't buy them shit or do anything like that. Its just no strings attached sex and they are hungry for it b/c there husband ain't giving em the dick. Its her decision to go and cheat, not yours. Whether she does it with you or some random other person is a mute point. I dont understand why all you guys are like, well if that happened then I'd kill the guy. Its yoru bitch thats cheating and is scandalous, she is to blame and maybe you are to, not some other guy. please. this is ridiculous, and lets not act like marriage is such a holy sanctomony. People get married nowadays at the drop of a hat. Yes its sad that a family is in turmoil, but you can't look at teh cheating as the problem, there was a problem with the family long before anyone cheated, ya dig. lets address the real problem and not displace blame if we are really gonna talk about it

you are obviously young and naive, if you ever get married you will surely change your views on this.

 

[Vieope]

you do not have marriage in Brazil?

Yes but the new generation is more liberated.
http://www.ironmagazineforums.com/showpost.php?p=769231&postcount=11

it is not ownership, it is a comittment, and you should respect others comittments.

you're right there are a lot of people in this world, so stay away from the ones that are married.

What do you think about stopping a marriage to make her be with you? Also not good?

 

[Arnold]

all I know is that I am happily married and I would beat the living shit out of you or anyone that tries to get near my wife sexually.

 

[ponyboy]

Here's another side of it - why is it the guys fault completely? If your wife knowingly pursues a sexual relationship with another man isn't she to blame? I'm against sleeping with married women but it takes two to tango - IMO the wife is just as much to blame. If you're going to kill the guy you had better burn your wife's belongings and throw her on the street as well.

 

[BoneCrusher]

Two situations would need to exist:

He did not know she was my wife ... ie she lied and he is just doing his thang with a single woman.

He did know she was my wife and is doing my thang.

I am now single because of this situation. My ex screwed around a couple of times. 1st time I beat the shit outta the dude and left him in the trunk of his car ... he knew he was messing with my wife. Even talked smack to me on the phone. I followed her, got his plate, had it ran and followed him from his house. Hit his car in the ass, then kicked his ass when he got out to see who hit his car.

Second time the dude had no idea he was nailing a married woman ... I believed him and I let him walk. I found who he was, went to his regular bar and chated with him like just another beer drinking mofo ... he had no idea he was speaking to the man married to "his" girl. He never spoke to her again after I told him who I was according to both her cell phone and our house phone bills. Soon as he knew he bailed. Smart guy.

End result in my mind? If he knows he gets a beat down ... a real bone breaking beat down. The kind that a guy never forgets. If he does not know he should get a pass.

Either way I will not ever again give a second chance to a cheater.
My ex is the mother of my son so I tried again ... but now I am single.

In no way will I ever knowingly do another man's woman. It's not about her ... it's about me and him. I want men to respect my rights so I respect theirs. If you'd asked me that when I was 20 I would have just snickered and said "Ohhh no ... 'course not" with a smile.

 

[Lurker]

Married women are too complicated, if you find one that will sleep with you what does that say about where her head is at. If you fall in love could you ever trust her to not step out on you.

 

[Arnold]

Here's another side of it - why is it the guys fault completely? If your wife knowingly pursues a sexual relationship with another man isn't she to blame?

it's not, it's 50/50 I said that earlier, but I am not going to beat up my wife so that leaves only the other man to kick the shit out of!

 

[RexStunnahH]

Two situations would need to exist:

He did not know she was my wife ... ie she lied and he is just doing his thang with a single woman.

He did know she was my wife and is doing my thang.

I am now single because of this situation. My ex screwed around a couple of times. 1st time I beat the shit outta the dude and left him in the trunk of his car ... he knew he was messing with my wife. Even talked smack to me on the phone. I followed her, got his plate, had it ran and followed him from his house. Hit his car in the ass, then kicked his ass when he got out to see who hit his car.

Second time the dude had no idea he was nailing a married woman ... I believed him and I let him walk. I found who he was, went to his regular bar and chated with him like just another beer drinking mofo ... he had no idea he was speaking to the man married to "his" girl. He never spoke to her again after I told him who I was according to both her cell phone and our house phone bills. Soon as he knew he bailed. Smart guy.

End result in my mind? If he knows he gets a beat down ... a real bone breaking beat down. The kind that a guy never forgets. If he does not know he should get a pass.

Either way I will not ever again give a second chance to a cheater.
My ex is the mother of my son so I tried again ... but now I am single.

In no way will I ever knowingly do another man's woman. It's not about her ... it's about me and him. I want men to respect my rights so I respect theirs. If you'd asked me that when I was 20 I would have just snickered and said "Ohhh no ... 'course not" with a smile.

I would say this sums it up,as you get older and wiser,and experience more things...your priorities change.What if that was your mom,going around banging guys,behind your dads back?
I am a firm believer in what goes around comes around.I would not like that to happen to me.

 

[Vieope]

all I know is that I am happily married and I would beat the living shit out of you or anyone that tries to get near my wife sexually.

It POW! was CRASH! worth SMACK! it.

 

[bulletproof1]

i think we need to discuss why women (or men for that matter) cheat on their spouse to begin with. i mean we can talk about integrity and ass whoopins all day long. the fact is, if you are taking care of your spouse (in every way, not just sexually,) cheating will not be an option for them. if you are the guy that smacks his wife around, gets off without concern for her pleasure, or tries to "own" her, you are setting yourself up for disappointment. just mho.

 

[BoneCrusher]

i think we need to discuss why women (or men for that matter) cheat on their spouse to begin with. i mean we can talk about integrity and ass whoopins all day long. the fact is, if you are taking care of your spouse (in every way, not just sexually,) cheating will not be an option for them. if you are the guy that smacks his wife around, gets off without concern for her pleasure, or tries to "own" her, you are setting yourself up for disappointment. just mho.

Im with ya there BP. I was plauged with this exact mind f*ck as I went through the problem. Some people need a constant barage of input from outside of themself to feel content. If a person is not able to be happy without always getting input from others than sooner or later someone is gonna get hurt.

 

[largepkg]

Im with ya there BP. I was plauged with this exact mind f*ck as I went through the problem. Some people need a constant barage of input from outside of themself to feel content. If a person is not able to be happy without always getting input from others than sooner or later someone is gonna get hurt.

^ I agree 100%!

 

[Arnold]

i think we need to discuss why women (or men for that matter) cheat on their spouse to begin with. i mean we can talk about integrity and ass whoopins all day long. the fact is, if you are taking care of your spouse (in every way, not just sexually,) cheating will not be an option for them. if you are the guy that smacks his wife around, gets off without concern for her pleasure, or tries to "own" her, you are setting yourself up for disappointment. just mho.

there can be many reasons, and it does not necessarily involve a bad or unhappy marriage, just look at OceanDude, he talks about how he is/was on the verge of cheating on his wife in another thread in this forum and he is supposedly happily married.

 

[I Are Baboon]

all I know is that I am happily married and I would beat the living shit out of you or anyone that tries to get near my wife sexually.

 

[OceanDude]

there can be many reasons, and it does not necessarily involve a bad or unhappy marriage, just look at OceanDude, he talks about how he is/was on the verge of cheating on his wife in another thread in this forum and he is supposedly happily married.

This is not accurate and a misrepresentation of what my motives were - and I think you know that. I was curious about what I though was a very interesting person I wanted to get to know better (on a friendship basis). we had become good online friends and I had absolutely no idea that she was a sex fiend and had a different motive and agenda than friendship. Actually she had a different semantic for friends (casual non-relational sex) than I that I found to be incompatible. Cheating was never my objective and I backed out of it when the relationship got way out of line and admitted that I made a mistake. It was because I have values, a conscience and a commitment (and integrity) that I did back out and not cave into an extremely strong temptation she offered me.

OD

 

[BoneCrusher]

This is not accurate and a misrepresentation of what my motives were - and I think you know that. I was curious about what I though was a very interesting person I wanted to get to know better (on a friendship basis). we had become good online friends and I had absolutely no idea that she was a sex fiend and had a different motive and agenda than friendship. Actually she had a different semantic for friends (casual non-relational sex) than I that I found to be incompatible. Cheating was never my objective and I backed out of it when the relationship got way out of line and admitted that I made a mistake. It was because I have values, a conscience and a commitment (and integrity) that I did back out and not cave into an extremely strong temptation she offered me.

OD

Translation? When she she saw his mug for the first time she ran for the door ... left skid marks three blocks long ... and won't answer his emails anymore .

 

[Arnold]

This is not accurate and a misrepresentation of what my motives were - and I think you know that. I was curious about what I though was a very interesting person I wanted to get to know better (on a friendship basis). we had become good online friends and I had absolutely no idea that she was a sex fiend and had a different motive and agenda than friendship. Actually she had a different semantic for friends (casual non-relational sex) than I that I found to be incompatible. Cheating was never my objective and I backed out of it when the relationship got way out of line and admitted that I made a mistake. It was because I have values, a conscience and a commitment (and integrity) that I did back out and not cave into an extremely strong temptation she offered me.

OD

Finally I post something that gets you to respond and quote me!

I feel much better now.

 

[bulletproof1]

damn you 2 just need to go toe to toe for a few rounds. id like to see whos left standing.

 

[MaxMirkin]

Normally the thought of hitting a woman goes against my very nature, but if I ever found out that my soon-to-be wife was screwing around......