Vieope said:I know what you mean but I am trying to make this mutiple system work for now. I might find someone even more special that will make me be with just one person. It is all good.
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Hey, Vieope, at least you're honest, and not playing any games! Congrats to you..
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Fuck it, if they're willing............................
I get a general feeling from people that the dude is gonna get the smackdown. Max would but the pain on his women as well, and heywouldjeblowme would be the one getting the smackdown. This seems like a normal reaction from one extreme to another. I recall the question of what if you started the beating and got beat or killed instead. Most of the guys in here have spent a very long time on their bodies, so odds are in our favor. Unless we run into another IM member 
then all bets are off, call the medivac hellicopter .. and step back cuz body parts are gonna fly 
It still does not get to the core issue though. Why do some people not end a relationship BEFORE they get their yayas with another person. *In a Doctor Smith Voice* "The pain ... ohhh the pain". I don't and could not. Not hollier than anyone ... just don't want to deal with all the messy aftermath. I hate a polluted lifestyle litered with human emotions and head trips.
then all bets are off, call the medivac hellicopter .. and step back cuz body parts are gonna fly It still does not get to the core issue though. Why do some people not end a relationship BEFORE they get their yayas with another person. *In a Doctor Smith Voice* "The pain ... ohhh the pain". I don't and could not. Not hollier than anyone ... just don't want to deal with all the messy aftermath. I hate a polluted lifestyle litered with human emotions and head trips.
If we were all that strong, life would be a lot easier. But it still doesn't excuse the behavior.BoneCrusher said:
And for the record, if I ever cheated and my wife caught me, I wouldn't even try to resist whatever beating she had in mind for me. Anyway, it would be nothing compared to the emotional pain I would experience at the thought of having caused her such pain.
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Having been on both sides of this issue and married for 14+ years I got to say "Marriage does not equal dead".BoneCrusher said:
And there are men out there who are literally patient as hell. There was this guy in college, we were good friends and study partners for 3 years. In my 5-7th years of marriage things were going south quickly and badly. He about freaking pounced when he realized things were so bad the old man wasn't coming home on a regular basis. I take responsibilty for my actions, but if I hadn't been so vulnerable in the first place I wonder if the following months would have even happend. The messy aftermath seemed to happen in order for me and the old man to start getting real with one another.
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I had a rule never to even go after a women that was in a relationship (dating) another man. I had women cheat on me in the past and I hated how it felt, so I decided that I would never do this to another.
Its the whole "do on to others as you want done on to you" idea
I had a rule never to even go after a women that was in a relationship (dating) another man. I had women cheat on me in the past and I hated how it felt, so I decided that I would never do this to another.
Its the whole "do on to others as you want done on to you" idea
I have a couple of rules I live by.
1. Never do or say anything, I wouln't do or say if my wife were next to me.
2. Never do or say anything to a woman, I wouln't do or say if her husband were next to her.
3 If I caught a guy, who knew my wife was married, Hitting on her, I would break both of his leg's and tell him next time I won't be so forgiving.
1. Never do or say anything, I wouln't do or say if my wife were next to me.
2. Never do or say anything to a woman, I wouln't do or say if her husband were next to her.
3 If I caught a guy, who knew my wife was married, Hitting on her, I would break both of his leg's and tell him next time I won't be so forgiving.
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exactly!
There is waaay more to marriage than sex.TrojanMan60563 said:
Two more votes for "Yes" please.
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cman said:3 If I caught a guy, who knew my wife was married, Hitting on her, I would break both of his leg's and tell him next time I won't be so forgiving.
I can understand that if he didn't stop the advances after having been told, but what if, the wife did not stop the advances? Would you still need to break the other guys leg?
I've seen guys hit on my wife, buy her drinks and the like, and each time I say nothing nor do I feel the need to bust anyone up. Why, because I know that my wife will politely tell them she's married. Only once have I had to step in on such a situation, but that was only because he was young and had a few too many to drink. I usually have a drink bought for me and sometimes even an apology. My point is this though, if my wife would not mention she was married while these guys are making their move, then my real issue would be with my wife, not them.
Guys will be guys. I've asked a few of them, after they find out she was married, did they not see the ring? Did they not notice she would be talking to me most of the night. And the majority say "Sure, but she is such a looker"
I just laugh and wish them happy hunting. I have also warned a few that most husbands have a jealousy streak in them and it could prove to be harmful. When I was dating, I would always look for the ring because I had seen bf/s freak out over other men talking to their gfs ... I didn't need to get involved with any jealousy issues - so I could even imagine talking to a married woman and having to deal with the husband.
I have been in that boat. In fact, I find it fun. I remember watching a movie once with Meg Ryan and Andy Garcia where some guy is hitting on Meg Ryan, while Andy Garcia suddenly walks in, gets in the middle of the way, starts hitting on her and then she leaves with him, leaving the guy dumbfounded and insulted. They ended up being married and it was a hoax. They let the guy know before they left and bought him a drink (If I remember correctly). Now this I am not proud of, but watching that movie is one of those courting rituals that a man must go thru to.....naturaltan said:
Anyway, back to my story, I went thru that, but I didn't have the cojones that the character in that movie had, but I did politely show the guy my wedding band (which was in my closed fist) and the guy politely agreed to hit on someone else. He didn't know my wife was married and I didn't smack him.
Now, the other day, in fact, about a month ago, it was my sister's birthday party and one of her friends, who knows me and met my wife that night, started hitting on her when I went to the bathroom. She, of course told him where to go. Lucky for him I didn't find out until after (a week later...my wife and my sister know me well). See, I don't appreciate lack of respect and the guy showed that. Had I been there or seen him during that time, I would have had to beat him down.
Going even further, and in the spirit of this thread, if the above mentioned guy, who knows me and my wife hit on her and she accepted his advances, then taking it further to the bed, I would break the guy in half, no questions asked, no apology accepted (no matter when I found out). I won't kill him, and if I get taken to court, "temporary insanity due to rage"...If a guys knows, then he also knows that there are repercussions to his actions....
As for my wife (or at that moment, ex-wife), no physical harm. However, the divorce lawyer is drafting papers the day after, while I'm in jail. Will I be nice and not try to take the kids? I probably will, because I love her so, even after getting destroyed by her actions. The other guy? If I don't kill him, he can consider himself blessed.......and this coming from a Roman Catholic.....
i have done it and ended up beating the shit out of a guy who was defendeding his family. not something I am proud of now especially since I have my daughter
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Rich46yo said:
never saw that reply coming
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only a piece of shit wife would cat around while she was married in the first place. It's HER that's married.
Wow, just finished the thread. Personally I think V brings up some very good points.
As for my wife and I, Lisa forgave me when I cheated on her, I would most definately do the same for her. Cheating in a marriage is not the end of the world IMO and does not necessarily call for "walking papers". People make mistakes, yes, even married people.
As for my wife and I, Lisa forgave me when I cheated on her, I would most definately do the same for her. Cheating in a marriage is not the end of the world IMO and does not necessarily call for "walking papers". People make mistakes, yes, even married people.
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That's your opinion. What would you consider some other "unforgivable" mistakes?largepkg said:
No, I don't take it as a shot to me, we'll maybe I did at first but not now 
. And I am sorry to read about your experience.
. And I am sorry to read about your experience.
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Not necessarily. Women are more inclined to act solely on emotions, which can be dangerous. Also, it could have been her crappy husband that drove her to want to cheat in the first place.Flex said:
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WHY she is going to cheat is not the point. OBVIOUSLY it COULD be b/c of a million different reasons, not just the two you pointed out. It could be b/c her husband doesnt give her sex, or she falls in love w/someone else etc. etc. etc.
the point was that you guys were ragging on people who would hook up with another man's wife. Well, it's not the "3rd party guy's" fault if the wife is willing to cheat while SHE is married. that was my point.
and IMO the most fucked up thing about a woman cheating is that it's premeditated. I've posted this a million times before on this forum, but basically to sum it up it means that if a woman cheats, she planned on it. It's not like a guy, who can get turned on in the matter of 2 seconds, and hasta decide whether to cheat or stay faithful. Women don't act on impulse like that (well, almost all anyways). Women know all along they are planning on cheating, whether she "has a crappy husband" or whatever the reason....
Yes.
