You have people giving you REALLY good suggestions as far as the insurance footing the bill... I'd write those down, and have him rehearse them before going to the doc.... it HAS TO effect his quality of life, etc for the insurance to even think about it... try that.. doesn't sound like he wants to just use meds to take care of it, sounds like he would like to have it permanently removed....
if that doesn't work, have him get with Matt.... I want to see how this androhard works on established gyno!!!!! I think the science behind it sounds good, and I would love to see how it works on something that I really don't think that nolva and letro will do much for at this point... THIS IS THE PERFECT CASE!!! and you aren't pushing prescriptioon drugs on him without a script(which is what it sounds like he doesn't want) .. it is legal, OTC... and I wanna see what it is capable of!!!