if it's love fine but sometimes you see younger men with older women because she owns a house, nice vehicles etc. no different that younger women with older men for security and stability. to me it's weird now when i see a really young guy like early twenties and i think he is hot. i can appreciate the fact he is good looking but i wouldn't feel right dating him. he should have a young woman he can have a family with and grow old together not watch his partner turn into a granny.
not all trophy hunting old men end up going thru shit like mel gibson. some end up with really nice young wives and raise families. i know one young guy who has himself set up pretty well with an older woman i believe he really loves. love would be the difference i guess.
and younger men really think older men can't get it up. my son was always saying that i should date a younger man and would point out these freaking late teen early twenties guys. i'd keep telling him i'm not interested in guys that age. finally he asked,"Mom, why you want some old guy that can't get it up?" i realized all the viagra ads etc make the younger people think all older men have that issue.