Robin Hood said:
Maybe the question I should ask then, is how much EFAs should I be intaking in a day.
How much - Well, I would supplement with 6 to 10g of fish oils a day. Then try to eat a good balance of omega-6 and omega-3 fats (flax, walnuts, fatty fish) in your diet (Generally you should try to get a 1:1 ratio of omega 3 to omega 6 fats...).
Overall fat levels in your diet should be ~0.3 to 0.6g of fat per pound bodyweight, so that means your fat intake on a daily bases (from all sources) should be between 36 and 72g (depending on your goals and prefered fuel source).
From that, try to limit your saturated fats (some saturated fats are ok, but you generally do not need to go 'searching' for these, they are usually provided in your diet regardless) and aim to get most of your fats from poly-unsaturated (eg: Your essential omega-3 and omega-6 fats) and mono-unsaturated sources (eg: olive oil, avocado).
Do I include this fat intake in the % of fat I should be getting out of my daily calories. For example, if I'm supposed to have 20% of my calories from fat, do my EFAs count toward this 20%?
Yeah they do count. So, if you take suppliments to fill your needs (eg: Fish caps) then you need to count these in your totals. 1 capsule usually = 1g of fish oil or 9 calories (1g fat).
I've been intaking around 32-35 grams of fat from EFAs. How should this be spread out over the course of a day? I've been taking 1/2 in the morning and 1/2 pre-workout. Didn't realized I should have some before bed.
32-35g! Are you taking this as supplements as in fish oil caps or are you just talking all your fat sources combined (eg: PB, nuts, capsules, oils etc).
Anyway, you should spread capsules roughly equally through the day (eg: if you take 6 caps then 2 caps with breakfast, two at lunch and two at an evening meal) then also spread your dietry fats through the day (esp in those meals where you do not get a lot of carbs and in your pre-bed meal).
The only times I generally refrain from any fats is pre-exercise (if you eat within 1-1.5 hrs of the meal, as the fat will delay absorption of the meal) and post-workout (as it will also delay absorption).
eg: an example if you eat 5 meals before you workout
Meal 1: Carbs + protein + dietry fats
Meal 2: Carbs + protein + EFA supps
Meal 3: Carbs + protein + dietry fats
Meal 4: Carbs + protein + EFA supps
Meal 5 (pre-workout): Carbs + protein
PWO Shake: Carbs + protein
Meal 6 (pre-bed): Protein + dietry fats + EFA supps