She knows I know

[King Silverback]

If she's still married!!! She's probably and the husband will

YOUR PENIS...

Don't do it Bro, think if the shoe was on the other foot and it was your wife with someone else like that. How would it make you feel? I say nix it, wait for YOUR divorce and "Go Fishing" There are too many fish out there.

 

[ZECH]

Well, well....................she responded!


David,

Please dont say anything!! Things are bad here and i dont know how to handle it! I would love to talk sometime.

Thanks!



Thoughts?

 

[PreMier]

So talk with her..

 

[ZECH]

She just gave me her cell number.

 

[SuperFlex]

Don't do it Bro, think if the shoe was on the other foot and it was your wife with someone else like that. How would it make you feel? I say nix it, wait for YOUR divorce and "Go Fishing" There are too many fish out there.

Well said Arch...

 

[BoneCrusher]

Hey Dg ... how about plan er eh what are we at now? Lets go with Q ... plan Q. Talk to her till she is free of the relationship then hit it. You get the new tits to play with and no remorse.

 

[ZECH]

Even though she placed the ad, I don't know if she would be willing to do that. I think she thinks it would be fun. I think she just needs someone to talk to. Then again she might be ready to leave, I will just have to talk to her and see. My gut feeling is she is at a point where it's the same old rut in a marriage where it's the kids everyday, work and cooking and cleaning house. Well, that is life no matter where you are and who you are with. The grass always looks greener on the other side, but when you get there yours looked just as good. Sure it would be fun to have fling, but is it worth risking what you already have? My wife thought so. I think she will find out it wasn't what she thought it would be. But it's too late now. And I'm going to tell this girl that. Then, we will see.

 

[John H.]

Sounds like trouble with a capital "T"

I was cruising the yahoo personals this morning and low and behold I see one of my ex wife's friends. She is married and has two kids. As far as I know she is not seperated. She could be though. Anyway, I had her e-mail on my computer from an old contact my wife had. So yep, I sent her an e-mail. I asked her should I be shocked or not? Her ad basically said, "fun female seeking fun male" So you know what she wants. Now I have been seperated 7 months and my divorce will be nearing. So if she e-mails me back what would you do? BTW, she is 5'7 125 lbs and had a boob job last year that looks really good

Hi Dg,

Sounds like trouble with a capital "T". BEFORE you DO anything - THINK real hard - HONESTLY - is this someone you could really and honestly get along with? And whatever problems she has - known and unknown? Are you willing to put up with more problems - with her and her ex? What about her children? What about your ex to be? (Of course once you have an "ex" she IS "ex"!!) BUT would this cause any future problems? Does she know her?

Just sounds as if there is a possibility of too much future "bs" - I'd recommend not to until you can BE ABSOLUTELY SURE!!

Take Care, John H.

 

[I Are Baboon]

I was cruising the yahoo personals this morning and low and behold I see one of my ex wife's friends. She is married and has two kids.

Friggin cheating whore.

 

[ZECH]

Friggin cheating whore.

LOL seems to be the thing to do.

 

[LAM]

What is it with women that they think they are missing something. Hell it's all the same. So are women. It all gets boring if you both don't work at it. I'll see if she emails me back.

I don't know if this is the case but I know plenty of women who married men only because there were good providers and were never in love with their husbands. Obviously not the foundation for a sound and long lasted marriage...

 

[ZECH]

I don't know if this is the case but I know plenty of women who married men only because there were good providers and were never in love with their husbands. Obviously not the foundation for a sound and long lasted marriage...

True, although there is something to be said for that. But definately not a reason to get married.

 

[gococksDJS]

Well, well....................she responded!


David,

Please dont say anything!! Things are bad here and i dont know how to handle it! I would love to talk sometime.

Thanks!



Thoughts?

she wants it in the butt...

 

[HotMom23]

For one she is still married & has two kids. (As long as you don't mind kids). And she is your ex-wifes friend. Do you still talk to your ex?

 

[ZECH]

For one she is still married & has two kids. (As long as you don't mind kids). And she is your ex-wifes friend. Do you still talk to your ex?

Nope And they are not close friends.

 

[fantasma62]

Even though she placed the ad, I don't know if she would be willing to do that. I think she thinks it would be fun. I think she just needs someone to talk to. Then again she might be ready to leave, I will just have to talk to her and see. My gut feeling is she is at a point where it's the same old rut in a marriage where it's the kids everyday, work and cooking and cleaning house. Well, that is life no matter where you are and who you are with. The grass always looks greener on the other side, but when you get there yours looked just as good. Sure it would be fun to have fling, but is it worth risking what you already have? My wife thought so. I think she will find out it wasn't what she thought it would be. But it's too late now. And I'm going to tell this girl that. Then, we will see.

Hey DG,

It's not a bad idea to let this girl know what you think. For all you know she just needed a good sit-down with someone other than her husband and maybe you can open her eyes to your thoughts about her doing that.
If she's separated or divorced, there is always Plan.............R? Tapping the ass

 

[ZECH]

Well she said they are both unhappy. She said she has not been attracted to him for some while now, (I'm guessing that means sleeping with him). She also said he doesn't know that she is "out partying", so I'm not screwing anything up am I? I did e-mail her a LONG rant about me and my wife and I told her I hoped she knew what she was doing, yadda yadda and that I wished her the best. But she still wants to talk and I told her I would too. So now what? I'm thinking hit it! She's gonna do somebody....

 

[fantasma62]

Well she said they are both unhappy. She said she has not been attracted to him for some while now, (I'm guessing that means sleeping with him). She also said he doesn't know that she is "out partying", so I'm not screwing anything up am I? I did e-mail her a LONG rant about me and my wife and I told her I hoped she knew what she was doing, yadda yadda and that I wished her the best. But she still wants to talk and I told her I would too. So now what? I'm thinking hit it! She's gonna do somebody....

Dg, you did what you have to do. You told her this was wrong and tisk, tisk.
You did your part, she wants to hit it too. I think you want to tap it, so go to plan R, however, and sorry for being the pahty poopa (Arnold saying party pooper), but are you friendly with her soon to be ex-husband? Sorry to spoil it, but that would be my first thought, seeing that I am a "village idiot"....
Otherwise, Plan R, a-tapping-Dg-must-go....

 

[BenPhat]

Sounds like a bunch of High School kids...Who here made a promise to God, Mate and Self............Think like an adult

 

[SJ69]

I'd stay the fugk away, not because of any moral issues, but because you'll loose a LOT of money in divorce court if the wife finds out. From experience I know the liberal judges don't give a fuk about what's right, they just love to see the woman extract as much money as they can from the evil man. You never know, this woman might be cohoots (sp?) with your wife, she may be settin' you up bro, be careful.

 

[SJ69]

I'm thinking hit it! ...

Of course you are, that's what any man would think, but there's tons of woman out there that don't know your wife. Plus, look at the competition out there, half the guys out there are so out of shape, it should be easy pickinz for a guy like you.

 

[SJ69]

That is if your still legally married, if not, go for it!!

 

[CRASHMAN]

You missed the pics.

so did i, lets see them again i have to aprove

 

[Flex]

Fuck her in the ass that way it wont really count since she is married.

that's what i woulda done

 

[Flex]

Friggin cheating whore.

see, this is the EXACT reason i hate chicks.

For guys, cheating is a split second decision, where an opportunity may present itself and the guy has to choose between right and wrong. Usually the opportunity is at a bar and the guy is hammered, so the booze and testosterone have a battle with the heart and brain.

Girls, on the other hand, know completely beforehand what they're doing when they cheat on you. They have thought it out and decided thats what they're gonna do.

Man, if i wasn't heterosexual and attracted to girls and knew they are the ones who bare children, i'd have zero fuckin' use for them.

 

[crazy_enough]

see, this is the EXACT reason i hate chicks.

For guys, cheating is a split second decision, where an opportunity may present itself and the guy has to choose between right and wrong. Usually the opportunity is at a bar and the guy is hammered, so the booze and testosterone have a battle with the heart and brain.

Girls, on the other hand, know completely beforehand what they're doing when they cheat on you. They have thought it out and decided thats what they're gonna do.

Man, if i wasn't heterosexual and attracted to girls and knew they are the ones who bare children, i'd have zero fuckin' use for them.

OH PA-Lease!!!lolol Its ok for men to cheat coz they're dumb drunks when they do it and their bodies produce testosterone!!
When women cheat, theyre slutz, when guyz do it, theyre heroes!!! Double standard!

 

[CRASHMAN]

When women cheat, they're slutz, when guyz do it, they're heroes!!! Double standard!

I'd love to hang out with those friends back when before this gf i cheated on another dam they thought i was a stupid ass. I was.

it's not a double standard its a difference in perspective, girls think being a slut is a horrible thing, guys think it is cool and no one (well not many) thinks someone of the opposite sex that is a slut is a hero or cool, so girls condemn guys for being sluts, and guys condemn girls for being sluts. But guys congratulate guys for being sluts; however, girls condemn other girls for being sluts. see if we all loved sluts there wouldn't be a "double standard" so girls start loving sluts like us guys.

 

[naturaltan]

... not sure what that meant, but I agree!

 

[naturaltan]

My gut feeling is she is at a point where it's the same old rut in a marriage where it's the kids everyday, work and cooking and cleaning house. Well, that is life no matter where you are and who you are with.

... and if it's only her dealing with the kids, cooking and cleaning, then she might have a reason to be unhappy. I've heard and seen this too many times. The old cliche ... husband goes to work ... wife gets children ready and off, makes lunches, gets herself ready and off to work. Husband comes home and eats dinner. Wife comes home, possible gets children, makes dinner, does the dishes, does some house cleaning while the husband watches TV - sad sad sad I'm not saying that even if this is the case that going outside the marriage is a good idea, just saying that if the case I stated is true, she was a very good reason to be unhappy.

As for plan R, as SJ suggested, just becareful about the timing and your own divorce issues.

 

[ZECH]

Everyone keeps mentioning divorce timing. I caught my wife letters to her "BF" showing they had spent time together and my lawyer said it was obvious she was in love with this guy. BUT,in NC it doesn't matter. It's a "No Fault" state. It doesn't matter who done what. Both are married and both deserve half of what both accumulated during the marriage. WHICH SUCKS! So it doesn't matter if she does know I get with this girl. It doesn't change anything. She won't get any more or any less. Now as far as this girl goes, after talking to her, she is evidently just wanting to have a good time without her husband whatever the reason is. She did tell me not to say anything because he doesn't know although she said both were unhappy. She wants it hush hush. I just wonder what she would think/do if she got caught? Is it worth loosing her marriage over? I think not and told her so, but she is still willing to go out with me. Now I like that in a sense because she is a goodlooking girl. But what "gripes my ass" is that she is still willing to loose her marriage over it. I think this has been going on for at least a year and a half.