Should he get a pre-nup

[GFR]

My buddy is 38 and makes 82K a year....he is about to marry a Doctor who makes $350,000 a year....now this is the first marriage for both of them.

Here is the Question....she is fighting him on the pre-nup......she wants to give him jack sh-t if they diverse....he only wants 5 years alimony of 70K for 5 years. It is 4 days till the wedding and she still hasn't agreed to the pre-nup....

And she wants him to quit his job of 15 years to re-locate for her new job.

 

[LAM]

I've never heard of anyone getting a prenup based on income alone, does either one of them have substantial assests like a big home, stocks, bonds, etc. ?

I've never heard of a guy wanting or getting alimony either in a divorce. I guess it depends on the state, etc.

with only 4 days left till the wedding it sounds like they should have had this taken care of 6 months ago..

 

[GFR]

I've never heard of anyone getting a prenup based on income alone, does either one of them have substantial assests like a big home, stocks, bonds, etc. ?

I've never heard of a guy wanting or getting alimony either in a divorce. I guess it depends on the state, etc.

with only 4 days left till the wedding it sounds like they should have had this taken care of 6 months ago..

She makes 5x as much as he does....they both have stock and investments...the thing is she wants him to quit his job and re-locate for hers....he is a teacher in the highest paid area in the country ( has worked there for 15 years...giving up full retirement ect..if he walks away) and if he leaves he cant go back to that income...not even close.

She wants him to sighn a pre-nup saying if they diverse he gets nothing at all.

 

[CANIBALISTIC]

That's a tough situation

 

[Dale Mabry]

Turn tail and run. He has everything to lose and nothing to gain.

The alternative is that he becomes a house dad, opens an offshore account, and embezzles money from the bitch. I don't mean crazy-like, but when he buys the groceries he dumps a couple thou a year into the account.

Honestly, 5 years at $70k should be a bargain for her considering he would have to give up a job that pays $15k more. and would probably get $30k less at a new one.

This is all assuming there is a divorce, of which there is about a 50%. I wouldn't take those odds.

She would have to be pretty fuckin hot to give all women and a $85k job up for life.

 

[GFR]

Turn tail and run. He has everything to lose and nothing to gain.

The alternative is that he becomes a house dad, opens an offshore account, and embezzles money from the bitch. I don't mean crazy-like, but when he buys the groceries he dumps a couple thou a year into the account.

Honestly, 5 years at $70k should be a bargain for her considering he would have to give up a job that pays $15k more. and would probably get $30k less at a new one.

This is all assuming there is a divorce, of which there is about a 50%. I wouldn't take those odds.

She would have to be pretty fuckin hot to give all women and a $85k job up for life.

Great post I agree 100%.......now how do I tell a 38 year old man the truth

 

[Witmaster]

I'd hit it one last time and send her on her merry way.


I'll somewhat echo LAM's statement. This is something that should have been settled MONTHS ago. Sounds like they are not EVEN close to being ready to marry.

 

[Little Wing]

i think its only fair of her to agree to it given what he is walking away from to accomodate her.

 

[GFR]

i think its only fair of her to agree to it given what he is walking away from to accomodate her.

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[ASSPUNCTURE]

if this is a question the marriage isnt a good one

chalk another one up for the 50% divorce rate in america


your buddy just wants to play house I bet

 

[Dale Mabry]

given what he is walking away from to accomodate her.

You're referring to all the pussy he's giving up, right?

 

[GFR]

You're referring to all the pussy he's giving up, right?

On a side note this guy got more pussy than any 10 guys I have ever known.....

 

[maniclion]

Unless you marry young marriage is just a big fucking business transaction.


If I were him I would marry and just live off of her.

 

[Witmaster]

On a side note this guy got more pussy than any 10 guys I have ever known.....

So he was marrying for the money, right? Or, is she REALLY that HOT?!?

 

[ZECH]

Given I am going to sign for divorce within a week or two, if they get married and don't sign, HALF of what she has is his if they ever get divorced. Now the question, will she marry him if he does not sign? If she does I would marry. If not I would say odious to the bitch! Why give up everything and then take a chance on not having anything??

 

[ZECH]

By the way, my brother married a doctor and she is making probably close to that. He quit a 90k job at the University Of Michigan in IT to be a stay at home dad. Now he is the CEO of their private practice.

 

[GFR]

So he was marrying for the money, right? Or, is she REALLY that HOT?!?

This is my best friend....when he was with you on the prowl....he got pussy and found you some for you, if you were to stupid to find it yourself.
Has a PHD in Math...played Division 1 college football and started for 2 years. Comped as a top amature natural BB...on the state level .
I would go on but don't want to sound gay
Its just sad.........He has suddenly become a bitch...

Tom Leykis where are you

 

[Big Smoothy]

She makes 5x as much as he does....they both have stock and investments...the thing is she wants him to quit his job and re-locate for hers....he is a teacher in the highest paid area in the country ( has worked there for 15 years...giving up full retirement ect..if he walks away) and if he leaves he cant go back to that income...not even close.

She wants him to sighn a pre-nup saying if they diverse he gets nothing at all.

Asking someone to:

1. quite their lifelong position in a job.
2. relocate on her behalf.
3. give up retirement

4. get nothing if they split.


I don't think he should marry her.....

 

[Dale Mabry]

Tell him to sign it Irwin R Fletcher

 

[GFR]

Tell him to sign it Irwin R Fletcher

Thank you very little

 

[maniclion]

By the way, my brother married a doctor and she is making probably close to that. He quit a 90k job at the University Of Michigan in IT to be a stay at home dad. Now he is the CEO of their private practice.

Exactly, I would quit my job and start my own hobby business with my wifes money as start up. He could easily pursue any of his dreams.

 

[LAM]

losing the retirement from the school district is a big one, I forgot about that...he needs to get something incase things don't work out

I love being single @ 36 with no kids...

 

[GFR]

Exactly, I would quit my job and start my own hobby business with my wifes money as start up. He could easily pursue any of his dreams.

And get divorced in 6 months and be fuck-d

 

[Island Roots]

From the sounds of it this marriage has already crashed before it's taken off.

 

[bio-chem]

thats awesome going into a marriage already thinking about it not working out. talk about a great start to a marriage. 'hey honey i love you and all, so i like the idea of this semi-permanent arrangement, but just in case next year i decide i dont love you anymore....' WTF that's a sad state of affairs if this is how marriage is viewed.

 

[GFR]

thats awesome going into a marriage already thinking about it not working out. talk about a great start to a marriage. 'hey honey i love you and all, so i like the idea of this semi-permanent arrangement, but just in case next year i decide i dont love you anymore....' WTF that's a sad state of affairs if this is how marriage is viewed.

Its called common sense....why make the biggest business decision in your life on emotion.....wake up
Yet another post that convinces me you are a crack head.

 

[Dale Mabry]

thats awesome going into a marriage already thinking about it not working out. talk about a great start to a marriage. 'hey honey i love you and all, so i like the idea of this semi-permanent arrangement, but just in case next year i decide i dont love you anymore....' WTF that's a sad state of affairs if this is how marriage is viewed.

So if you were a billionaire and found a model-type to marry you wouldn't even consider a pre-nup? In my best Al Czervik voice, "Now I know why tiger's eat their young."

Seriously, I imagine if this woman is not willing to give him anything in a pre-nup she prolly won't be investing in his mobile taco stand venture.

 

[GSXR750]

This thread kicks ass!

 

[Tough Old Man]

What happen to my post about LOVE and the lotto. I cou;ld care lees about money if trulylove someone. I've been put through the ringers and now on my third marrige. people who answered my post about lotto and money don't change your minds now. Look i have to live in Baja because my ex gets half my retirement. So be it. I'm healthier now then ever.

Tough

 

[GFR]

What happen to my post about LOVE and the lotto. I cou;ld care lees about money if trulylove someone. I've been put through the ringers and now on my third marrige. people who answered my post about lotto and money don't change your minds now. Look i have to live in Baja because my ex gets half my retirement. So be it. I'm healthier now then ever.

Tough

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