Shut ... you need to change bars.
Ummm ... that second comment I'm still not sure whether I agree or not. If we go to a bar and it's full of fat people (period) we move along to somewhere else.
On the topic of overweight people and bars ... what about those dressing in the hip hugger pants and crop shirts with their belly overhanging. :yuck:
I have never told my wife what to wear for most of our relationship. Last Christmas, I put a stop to her wanting to wear the sexy clothes. I said, if you want to go out like that (she was about 25lbs overweight) I said you'll be doing it without me. We can go out, but you should dress appropriately for your body style ... and surprisingly, after looking at pictures, she agreed. Thankfully, she's got back to going to the gym and has lost the extra 25lbs. Whew. It's cost us more in new clothes, but I can live with that.

With summer almost here, we're now looking for new bathing suits.