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ST Combination (you)
??? provides information
??? focuses on here and now
??? gives clear, concise instructions
??? presents material in orderly manner
??? prefers clearly defined rules and expectations
??? is pragmatic, realistic, industrious
SF Combination (other)
??? personal warmth, friendliness, empathy
??? focuses on here and now
??? wants to be liked
??? is sensitive to other???s needs
??? values honesty of feelings; sensitive to rights and feelings of others
??? prefers cooperation; vulnerable to criticism
I,S and J parts are identical in both. Not surprising, or you wouldn't have clicked, right?
This difference - F and T presents the primary differences in your communication styles, emotional wiring, expectations, mode of action.
Orderly, rational, objective vs feeling and subjective.
Solution (thanks to MyK's foresight in posting this info earlier in the thread)
The T Preference
Goal
??? systematic solution
??? organization
Characteristics
??? makes logically accurate statements
??? analyses issues carefully & impersonally
??? looks at logical consequences
??? encourages logical thinking
When interacting with F???s
??? first mention points of agreement
??? recognize feelings can be both cause & effect
??? appreciate F???s efforts and contributions
??? tell who else is for the idea
??? be personable and friendly
??? indicate how it???s helpful
??? tell why it???s valuable
??? realize that they will take it personally
The F Preference
Goal
??? humanly agreeable solution
??? sympathy
Characteristics
??? appreciates others
??? prizes harmony
??? sensitive to others
??? prefers agreement
When interacting with T???s
??? be as logical/orderly as possible
??? move logically from point to point
??? pay attention to reasons of T???s
??? consider T???s estimates of consequences
??? share feelings for T???s to consider
??? state principles involved
??? stress competent handling of issue
??? list the costs and benefits
In common:
Those with an I preference tend to:
??? have quiet energy.
??? think before they act.
??? pause to collect thoughts during talk.
??? ???tune out??? background noise.
??? resent ???repetitive chattering??? of others.
??? have a few, special friends.
??? have been pushed to ???be more social.???
??? are reserved and hard to get to know.
??? rehearse or think before speaking.
??? are perceived as great listeners.
??? ???recharge??? alone after socializing.
??? have good concentration.
Sensors tend to see the world in terms of the immediate, real, practical facts of experience and life. They will therefore tend to make sense of things by focusing on the facts first.
Those with an S preference tend to:
??? be realistic and admire practicality.
??? believe ???if it ain???t broke, don???t fix it.???
??? ???do??? rather than ???think??? about it.
??? like specific answers to questions.
??? like jobs with tangible results.
??? concentrate on the immediate task.
??? prefer working with facts and details.
??? insist on, and give, clear instructions.
??? prefer teaching facts, not concepts.
??? complete tasks step by step.
??? search for the best way.
??? use words literally.
---------where you are different --------
Thinkers make decisions based primarily on objective and impersonal criteria -- what makes the most sense and what is logical. Feelers make decisions based primarily on their personal values and how they feel about the choices. So, Thinkers tend to be cool, analytical, and are convinced by logical reasoning. Feelers tend to be sensitive, empathetic, and are compelled by extenuating circumstances and a constant search for harmony.
Those with a T preference (YOU) tend to:
??? stay cool when others are upset.
??? like proving a point.
??? objective; may seem cool and uncaring.
??? decide on fairness rather than feelings.
??? motivated to achieve fairness.
??? firm-minded, over gentle-hearted.
??? make the difficult decisions.
??? trust logic and principles.
??? be precise in their use of words.
??? are honest and direct.
??? are cool and reserved.
??? are objective
??? are naturally critical.
??? are motivated by achievement.
Those with an F preference (OTHER) tend to:
??? put themselves into the other???s shoes.
??? prefer to accommodate others.
??? are warm and friendly.
??? decide on feelings rather than fairness.
??? motivated to achieve harmony.
??? want to apply mercy.
??? be good at understanding people.
??? trust feelings and values.
??? prefer harmony over clarity.
??? easily affirm others.
??? are sensitive and diplomatic.
??? take things very personally.
??? are naturally affirming
??? are motivated by appreciation.
==== How you are alike ======================
Judgers tend to prefer living life in a decisive, planned, and orderly way, aiming to regulate and control events. Thus, they tend to keep to a schedule and organize their daily activities with lists.
Those with a J preference tend to:
??? have a specific place for everything.
??? have a schedule for the day.
??? be more serious and formal.
??? not like surprises or changes in plans.
??? work steadily through the task.
??? keep and use lists.
??? thrive on a planned & orderly lifestyle.
??? feel best finishing things.
??? be happiest after decisions are made.
??? meet deadlines by planning in advance.
??? work now, play later.
??? stay on topic and finish the discussion.
??? be very time-conscious.
??? make plans and follow them.
??? feel best reaching closure.
??? provides information
??? focuses on here and now
??? gives clear, concise instructions
??? presents material in orderly manner
??? prefers clearly defined rules and expectations
??? is pragmatic, realistic, industrious
SF Combination (other)
??? personal warmth, friendliness, empathy
??? focuses on here and now
??? wants to be liked
??? is sensitive to other???s needs
??? values honesty of feelings; sensitive to rights and feelings of others
??? prefers cooperation; vulnerable to criticism
I,S and J parts are identical in both. Not surprising, or you wouldn't have clicked, right?
This difference - F and T presents the primary differences in your communication styles, emotional wiring, expectations, mode of action.
Orderly, rational, objective vs feeling and subjective.
Solution (thanks to MyK's foresight in posting this info earlier in the thread)
The T Preference
Goal
??? systematic solution
??? organization
Characteristics
??? makes logically accurate statements
??? analyses issues carefully & impersonally
??? looks at logical consequences
??? encourages logical thinking
When interacting with F???s
??? first mention points of agreement
??? recognize feelings can be both cause & effect
??? appreciate F???s efforts and contributions
??? tell who else is for the idea
??? be personable and friendly
??? indicate how it???s helpful
??? tell why it???s valuable
??? realize that they will take it personally
The F Preference
Goal
??? humanly agreeable solution
??? sympathy
Characteristics
??? appreciates others
??? prizes harmony
??? sensitive to others
??? prefers agreement
When interacting with T???s
??? be as logical/orderly as possible
??? move logically from point to point
??? pay attention to reasons of T???s
??? consider T???s estimates of consequences
??? share feelings for T???s to consider
??? state principles involved
??? stress competent handling of issue
??? list the costs and benefits
In common:
Those with an I preference tend to:
??? have quiet energy.
??? think before they act.
??? pause to collect thoughts during talk.
??? ???tune out??? background noise.
??? resent ???repetitive chattering??? of others.
??? have a few, special friends.
??? have been pushed to ???be more social.???
??? are reserved and hard to get to know.
??? rehearse or think before speaking.
??? are perceived as great listeners.
??? ???recharge??? alone after socializing.
??? have good concentration.
Sensors tend to see the world in terms of the immediate, real, practical facts of experience and life. They will therefore tend to make sense of things by focusing on the facts first.
Those with an S preference tend to:
??? be realistic and admire practicality.
??? believe ???if it ain???t broke, don???t fix it.???
??? ???do??? rather than ???think??? about it.
??? like specific answers to questions.
??? like jobs with tangible results.
??? concentrate on the immediate task.
??? prefer working with facts and details.
??? insist on, and give, clear instructions.
??? prefer teaching facts, not concepts.
??? complete tasks step by step.
??? search for the best way.
??? use words literally.
---------where you are different --------
Thinkers make decisions based primarily on objective and impersonal criteria -- what makes the most sense and what is logical. Feelers make decisions based primarily on their personal values and how they feel about the choices. So, Thinkers tend to be cool, analytical, and are convinced by logical reasoning. Feelers tend to be sensitive, empathetic, and are compelled by extenuating circumstances and a constant search for harmony.
Those with a T preference (YOU) tend to:
??? stay cool when others are upset.
??? like proving a point.
??? objective; may seem cool and uncaring.
??? decide on fairness rather than feelings.
??? motivated to achieve fairness.
??? firm-minded, over gentle-hearted.
??? make the difficult decisions.
??? trust logic and principles.
??? be precise in their use of words.
??? are honest and direct.
??? are cool and reserved.
??? are objective
??? are naturally critical.
??? are motivated by achievement.
Those with an F preference (OTHER) tend to:
??? put themselves into the other???s shoes.
??? prefer to accommodate others.
??? are warm and friendly.
??? decide on feelings rather than fairness.
??? motivated to achieve harmony.
??? want to apply mercy.
??? be good at understanding people.
??? trust feelings and values.
??? prefer harmony over clarity.
??? easily affirm others.
??? are sensitive and diplomatic.
??? take things very personally.
??? are naturally affirming
??? are motivated by appreciation.
==== How you are alike ======================
Judgers tend to prefer living life in a decisive, planned, and orderly way, aiming to regulate and control events. Thus, they tend to keep to a schedule and organize their daily activities with lists.
Those with a J preference tend to:
??? have a specific place for everything.
??? have a schedule for the day.
??? be more serious and formal.
??? not like surprises or changes in plans.
??? work steadily through the task.
??? keep and use lists.
??? thrive on a planned & orderly lifestyle.
??? feel best finishing things.
??? be happiest after decisions are made.
??? meet deadlines by planning in advance.
??? work now, play later.
??? stay on topic and finish the discussion.
??? be very time-conscious.
??? make plans and follow them.
??? feel best reaching closure.
