What would cause you to cheat on your partner

[bio-chem]

yeah but what if its your one and only shot with catherine zetta jones. i mean c'mon you gotta take the opportunity right?

 

[hotbody]

I have lived and learned from this situation and I am still learning everyday. If there is cheating going on and after it all comes out, sometimes they will say whatever they think you want to hear. They will say everything will change and for a while they will change. But always keep your guard up and always stay smart. I am learning this more everyday. Just be careful if it is and think about the rest of your life....that's what I'm doing...you have so much to live for and you want to be happy!

 

[GimmEsoMoR]

Thanks everyone for being so honest. Sometimes the truth hurts, but you live and learn. What doesn't kill you....can only make you stronger! Thanks again!

 

[min0 lee]

Whats the story ending? Is it a sad one or a happy one?

 

[SuperFlex]

I've cheated just once...

but she was just a whore anyway... I'd most certainly try not to cheat and have no intentions of doing so in the future but if I met a lady as damn sexy as I am it would be near impossible not to. Maybe just hold hands or go out to the movies...lol j/p I think you should treat someone the way you would want to be treated and should treat a relationship in the manner that it may just last... Not all do but you may regret things down the road if you screw up a good one. If you want to sleep around and/or bang a few other people then fine. Just let the other person know ahead of time that that's what you're looking for out of the relationship. Ya WHORE! Again j/p. I also think you should tell if you cheat.................................... Hard to do but needs to be done...

 

[Gemini_4ur_eyes]

You know when your other is cheating. Believe in your self and go with your instincts.

Very true....the best thing you can do is to go with your gut[/quote]

You are so very close hotbody! Well in my opinions and experience anyways... The way I see it is believe in your self, follow your intuitions and go with your heart.... I was an @$$#0LE in my day with the selfish and inhumane ways of cheating... I felt that 1 man can only eat so many blue M&M's before he is gonna want a green one? And as well I am a Gemini which means that I am constantly craving different things, new toys all the time, always got bored with everything and anything a few weeks after I got it? And I never thought that I would find "the one" but then I did... finally found someone I truly love...and I thought truly loved me back....BUT KARMA had other plans...aborts our child(I forgave n forgot) but now like 2months ago she ran away left her cat that she's had for 19 years and is now a female escort.....sooooo all I am saying is whats ment to happen happens for a reason and that KARMA is a bitch sometimes! But to answer the original question "what would cause you to cheat on your partner?"
Lust, desire, beautiful women like hotbody 4 sure! and selfishness? and occasionally alcohol as it influences some peoples thought process!
Thats all I got...thanks for letting me vent the squats, presses, lifts, curls, stretches, and my favorite the heavybag just weren't doing it for me anymore.....

 

[lojasmo]

I would not cheat. If my wife cheated on me, I would try to remedy the underlying problem (we too have a child) If we had simply fallen out of love, and she didn't want to reconcile, I would ask for a divorce....I suppose.

 

[Blooming Lotus]

Being able to be honest about what you can do or better set up in your own life to be a better partner might help... if you want it real ... can reeally want it ...

 

[Gemini_4ur_eyes]

damn pulled this $#!T out from deep in the forum archives

 

[maxpro2]

enough said

 

[rooptophunny]

i actually just read this article about this the other day. i can't find it but it brought up some great points. for example, they spoke about your boyfriend/girlfriend making significant changes in their appearance... haircut, hair color, the way they dress?

supposedly that is a sign they are losing interest.

 

[Blooming Lotus]

If those are improvements and you know they tried to explain who they were when they looked less . .. improved.. you just better love them while they get there.. then when they do .. that's what you get.
I'm kind of hoping anyway . .

Blooming tianshi lotus.

 

[KelJu]

Why bother? If someone does something to me that is bad enough for me to want to cheat, I would end the relationship.


I honestly don't plan on ever getting married or having kids, so it keeps life simple.

 

[Blooming Lotus]

yeh. I was pretty firm on it myself. then i met this scientologist with these craazy freaking expectations ..but sane and reasonable nonetheless - who was really hot in bed and begged me to give him a chance to have me be his girlfriend in 10 yrs if we could each sort our shit out ..and talking about marraige like thaat thought was at all attractive directly prior to meeting him.. wtf do you say to that??.. I said see ya and hung up actually but he rang back and begged .. he was 10 mths out of a split from an 8 yr relationship and drinking heavily and bigg on aanything party pepp and riding his freaking motorbike off bridges and crap and .. the reason ii bother even screening it is because if love exists and he thinks he's down for what Ii'm talking about in life and we can agree on what we want out of it and are prepared to do toward it why, then i wanna be sleeping and hanging out with himm now that I've agreed to hear him out.. Christ - beats doing it alone if he can come through. I'm fussy.. i'm not stupid though.

 

[Imaphish03]

I generally don't cheat, but at the same time I don't have anyone exclusive in my life. The people I do see know I see other people so I don't consider that cheating. Unfortutanately though I haven't dated anyone exclusively for over 5 years.

 

[Little Wing]

 

[Little Wing]

my old sig i'm over it but that's funny.

 

[AKIRA]

i actually just read this article about this the other day. i can't find it but it brought up some great points. for example, they spoke about your boyfriend/girlfriend making significant changes in their appearance... haircut, hair color, the way they dress?

supposedly that is a sign they are losing interest.

I could see that as a possibility. I think the reason people do shit like that is cuz of boredom.

 

[ninjagun]

I think my man is losing interest. In your opinion, or experience...what would cause you to cheat on someone? Also....what signs do you look for if you suspect it?

If you feel he's cheating, he probably is or is about too...


The last thing you should do is get paranoid and start pressing for answers.. will always make thinsg worse.

 

[ninjagun]

I would not cheat. If my wife cheated on me, I would try to remedy the underlying problem (we too have a child) If we had simply fallen out of love, and she didn't want to reconcile, I would ask for a divorce....I suppose.

Good man..

If it aint working it aint working... EVERYONE SHAKE HANDS AND PASRT WAYS .. DON'T STRUGGLE

I'm done with games, I like to sleep with a good concience at night.. and thankfully I'm too crazy about my lady to see attraction in another woman...