Realationship issue.

[blazeftp]

Sups Bro's
Having a few issues in my relationship.
Most of you are a lot older and most experienced an will be able to help me out.

Me and my fiancée have been together 5 years.
First Love.

We have had our ups and downs like anyone else.
We had had 3 arguments in the five years we have been together.

My fiancée has always used her hands to stop me from going in to deep as it hurts her, it annoys me but i can handle it.

I noticed that she stopped looking at me during sex and stopped showing any signs she was enjoying sex,Which for me made me really confused.

One Day we where doing it and she was just lying there,
looked at me then looked away, stayed that way for a while then looked at me with blank face placed her hands on my stomach and pushed me slightly and starting playing with herself closing her eyes then looking away which she has never done before. after which she pushed me all the way out as its only ever in a little as thats what she likes. When i went to put it back in she moved away a little turned her head with her eyes closed away from me and continued to play until she orgasmed and just left me sitting there like a fucking idiot.

Our sex life before that was great i couldn't keep her off me and was always grabbing me and dragging me upstairs as she couldn't wait....now....

After the i managed to pick up some of myself esteem i asked her the kind of people she found "attractive and would sleep with"
To try see if she still liked me.

These are some

This guy from a band called "The Wanted"

This Fake tan wearing faggot.

I look a bit like Jonny messner, i grew up in a rough area so my personality is one who won't stand for anyones shit and i am respected for that.
http://www.silverjames.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/JohnnyMessner2.jpg

She grew up in a nice neighborhood and is a very sweet girl never doesn't go out much as she is terrified of going out alone so with me she feels safe now I think i am being Replaced. Now she wants on of these skinny fake tan wearing faggots.
They Look fucking Gay !!! one even has a fucking Kissy face !!!


What do you guys think ?
Is the old Alpha male Dieing for this well groomed guy with skinny jeans and fake tan ?

 

[phosphor]

What are your ages? Sounds like both of you need to goto Dune and get some spice.

Try to mix it up a bit when you can. I have been with the same woman for 6 years and married with children - we try to mix it up when we can (with children, it's fucking hard to), but both people in the relationship need to realize that it's the daily doldroms - people want something exciting to mix things up in order to keep it interesting. Whether that's drama or spice in the relationship, it's your call. Sometimes 'love' isn't enough.. 2k of songs on the subject.

I ask age, because the younger you guys are, the more need for drama there is after a while.

Maybe make some kissy faces to her. Couldn't hurt if she diggs it.

 

[blazeftp]

21.

We have tried absolutely everything.
We have had the best sex life out of any of our friends.
We constantly try new things and plan our weekends so we can have hours of fun.
One week i get this shit.
For a few weeks.

She goes from someone obsessed who constantly call to ask when the next time we can do it to a girl who would think she was fucking her dad.....wtf !?

Same time this is going on she met the first guy IRL she fancied....coincidence ?
It will be a sad day when i turn myself into a skinny faggot with a kissy face,

I take pride in my body as we all do her.
I worked hard over the past 3 years going from a skinny 110lb guy to a solid 180...now 199.

All the time she wants this,

http://www.picresize.com/images/rsz_axm016.jpg

 

[phosphor]

I kinda figured you guys were kinda young - not to take away from your issues at all really. Older couples can have the same types of issues. It is just more common I think the younger the people are. I figure it like this at that age: A guy cannot be around too much or the lady will get bored - she has to want you again. I would kinda make myself busy in a hurry without playing the hand too much to be obvious. If she keeps doing the same shit, it may be too late. Being that age, you can talk about your feelings like a little girl to her, but that shit don't work anyways. This kind of game bullshit usually comes around when dating in the early stages, not 4 years into it though. Just be prepared for the worst as well as you can if the shit hits. There is something going on in your girls head that you may not have much to say or do anything about. This isn't the dear abby forums, so I got to give it to you straight and help a bro out.

 

[persianprince23]

bro i had a similiar thing happen with me and my girlfriend of 3 years like u said sex was great relationship was fine yea we had our arguements and fights but nothing out of the norm and then i noticed that sex was "awkward" like she wasnt really into it u know and i would ask aand ask nothing and turns out she was fucking some other dude now im not saying that is the case by any means jus my particualr experience this happened when we werre 20 had been together in high school and we were in college at the time

 

[KelJu]

If she isn't interested in the sex, she most likely isn't interested in you anymore. Be glad it is a fiance and not a nearly wed wife. You can jump ship on this one with little or no consequences.

 

[persianprince23]

ended up being my "good" friend but thats another depressing moment i will refrain from talking about

 

[GFR]

So you have a giant dick that could kill her, and she hates fucking you now after 5 years.

First find a girl who can take your 5 inches with out being in pain, second find a girl who is not disgusted at the idea of fucking you.


Hope this helps.

 

[5thgeartapped]

bro i had a similiar thing happen with me and my girlfriend of 3 years like u said sex was great relationship was fine yea we had our arguements and fights but nothing out of the norm and then i noticed that sex was "awkward" like she wasnt really into it u know and i would ask aand ask nothing and turns out she was fucking some other dude now im not saying that is the case by any means jus my particualr experience this happened when we werre 20 had been together in high school and we were in college at the time

Solid advice!!!

 

[5thgeartapped]

ended up being my "good" friend but thats another depressing moment i will refrain from talking about

Oh snap!!! Should have read the whole thread before commenting... It's good you weren't married!

 

[blazeftp]

So you have a giant dick that could kill her, and she hates fucking you now after 5 years.

First find a girl who can take your 5 inches with out being in pain, second find a girl who is not disgusted at the idea of fucking you.


Hope this helps.

For once i may have pulled of being funny.
Bitch can't even take a dick.....


Thing is i would expect after 5 years she would tell me why.
I mean everyone knows shes full of shit.

Last night i said to her can we meet up to fix this today.
She told me she had to go to work as she needed money.
I said i would give her $100 thats more than enough.
She tell me no.

Guess where dream boy is ?
Her work ?


I am really insulted more than anything that my girl who i would have done anything for left me for some skinny chauvinistic womanizer....who has a kid. She threw 5 years away and has no guarantee this guy even wants a relationship....so she says.

 

[Hench]

Dude, offereing to pay her wages? Cut that shit out right now!!!

Don't ring her, don't text her, nothing. If she calls you, being really nice, yet unavailable. If this doesn't change her attitude then you're done, but at least you went out with the upper hand.

 

[Big Pimpin]

If she isn't interested in the sex, she most likely isn't interested in you anymore. Be glad it is a fiance and not a nearly wed wife. You can jump ship on this one with little or no consequences.

I agree. I can think of 50 examples of young chicks who married young because they thought it was the thing to do only bail because they realized they never got their freak and variety on. They divorce, act like whores for awhile then marry again.

Not to mention nowadays nobody is getting married before 27-30 because there's little to no reason to marry before that. Sowing your oats to get it out of your system and establishing yourself in a career is way more important than marrying and popping kids out at 21 in 2011.

 

[REDDOG309]

The one who care less in a relationship holds all of the power.

 

[blazeftp]

Guys i just want some closure.
Going to meet her tonight.
We met the first day of breakup at my apartment.
She has already took our engagement presents back so i will getting my fucking ring back.


Think after tonight if her attitude hasn't changed then i give up.
Tried my best
So fuck it she wants me back she knows where i live.


Going to finish the rest of my apartment get myself some new threads start going out with the Bro's again.
Few chick i have seen out and wanted to fuck.
So why not.
I am single.

I will have my social life back.
She never had one. still doesn't
Pretty sure give it a few weeks she will come crawling back by that time i will hopefully moved on.

 

[5thgeartapped]

Guys i just want some closure.
Going to meet her tonight.
We met the first day of breakup at my apartment.
She has already took our engagement presents back so i will getting my fucking ring back.


Think after tonight if her attitude hasn't changed then i give up.
Tried my best
So fuck it she wants me back she knows where i live.


Going to finish the rest of my apartment get myself some new threads start going out with the Bro's again.
Few chick i have seen out and wanted to fuck.
So why not.
I am single.

I will have my social life back.
She never had one. still doesn't
Pretty sure give it a few weeks she will come crawling back by that time i will hopefully moved on.

If it were me, I wouldn't let her know this is effecting you at all. Even if it is driving you nuts, act like you have already moved on. Bro there are sooo many girls out there.

 

[REDDOG309]

Yo Blaze, your way too young to be this wrapped up anyway. Right now is when you should be out having fun and not sweating over some chick. take your frustations out in the gym. occuupy your mind with other stuff. DO NOT get confrontational with her. See retLAW on what that will get you. Just let her walk and if its meant to be, it will be.
Good Luck

 

[theCaptn']

you're jerked and tanned, follow GFR's advice

 

[blazeftp]

Thanks for all the support guys.

I would play the field but where i live most girls have no self respect.
They are like snookie but uglier.

She called me there.
Told me she really wants to fix things.
So i stopped her told here tonight we should meet up at my flat give each other back our engagement rinds and say our goodbye's.
She sat and begged me for 20 minutes solid not to do that.
So told her we can still see each other but we will be just friends.
No kisisng cuddling fucking ect. She hates the fact she would never be able to kiss me...should have thought of that earlier.
We will be single for 3 weeks.
So if i am out want night in there is a girl i like who wants to go back to my place i am fucking her.after 3 weeks i have moved on and don't want her then it will stay that way.
If she does the same and so be it.

If she still wants me back she will have to win me back.
Will make sure there is another girl on the scene.
She wants me she will fight for me.
2 girls fighting over me....perfect time to ask for a threesome.


Funny how GFR knows how thick my penis is......

 

[5thgeartapped]

Thanks for all the support guys.

I would play the field but where i live most girls have no self respect.
They are like snookie but uglier.

She called me there.
Told me she really wants to fix things.
So i stopped her told here tonight we should meet up at my flat give each other back our engagement rinds and say our goodbye's.
She sat and begged me for 20 minutes solid not to do that.
So told her we can still see each other but we will be just friends.
No kisisng cuddling fucking ect. She hates the fact she would never be able to kiss me...should have thought of that earlier.
We will be single for 3 weeks.
So if i am out want night in there is a girl i like who wants to go back to my place i am fucking her.after 3 weeks i have moved on and don't want her then it will stay that way.
If she does the same and so be it.

If she still wants me back she will have to win me back.
Will make sure there is another girl on the scene.
She wants me she will fight for me.
2 girls fighting over me....perfect time to ask for a threesome.


Funny how GFR knows how thick my penis is......

Move to the West Coast bro! We have all the hot sluts! IMHO, you need to ignore her. Move on & stop thinking she's the best you're ever going to do. I swear even in swamp land there's always a hotter slut. In 21 years you should start thinking about settling down. Think of it more like seasoning, girls like seasoned beef... now go get seasoned LOL

 

[Big Pimpin]

I had somewhat of a similar situation with my first true love. We started dating my senior year of HS and she broke up with me about 1.5 yrs later. It tore me up, I wanted her back so after a few weeks we get back back together again. Well, the bitch breaks up with me again about 6 weeks later.

It took me all of week to realize there was an entire world of women who wanted to fuck me, so I moved on and began having a great time. Guess who finds out and wants to get back together? I never dated her again but for the better part of the next 5 years she would call once a month at 2am on a Saturday (knowing I just stumbled in drunk) wanting to come over and fuck. She usually had a general idea of who I was fucking at the time because we had friends in common and she would try to talk shit but it never stopped her from coming over to fuck. Supposedly her hang up was I popped her cherry, but I can't see how the hell it could be that special for so long. She was the true definition of a crazy bitch too.

 

[blazeftp]

Well 5 years is a long time.
I am the kind of guy who would rather be in a relationship.
Where i am guaranteed sex every week.
Most of my friends like to go out fuck a new girl every week and sometimes it does seem great but then they can go months without getting anyone decent.


I think she knows now how big the mistake she made was and the fact that my Facebook has lit up light a Christmas tree with my old admires telling me if the need someone to talk to they will be there for me.
I told her if she does want to finish because she thinks she wants the other guy then fine and that Once she realizes he only wanted her for sex and comes crawling back to me she will have a long line to wait in.

 

[Big Pimpin]

Well 5 years is a long time.
I am the kind of guy who would rather be in a relationship.
Where i am guaranteed sex every week.
Most of my friends like to go out fuck a new girl every week and sometimes it does seem great but then they can go months without getting anyone decent.


I think she knows now how big the mistake she made was and the fact that my Facebook has lit up light a Christmas tree with my old admires telling me if the need someone to talk to they will be there for me.
I told her if she does want to finish because she thinks she wants the other guy then fine and that Once she realizes he only wanted her for sex and comes crawling back to me she will have a long line to wait in.

Those 5 years I didn't have a single girlfriend nor did I want one. I went to college, partied and played the field and specifically told the chicks interested in me this is a fuck buddy situation as I don't want a gf. Of course after they sleep with you once or twice they become emotionally attached and think you will too. Of course I didn't, but I was honest up front. But that's a whole other thread.

 

[pancho]

i just went through the same thing.. baby daddy.. he used the kid to weasle his way back.. fuck it bro use it to your advantage.. cheat on her and through it in her face and make her feel like a fool and feel like you don't need her.. thats what i did.. hurt her before she hurts you... and move on..

 

[phosphor]

If she still wants me back she will have to win me back.

No. She fucking fell off the wagon and was getting dicked by some other smooth talker. Fuck that. Your idea that 'all the other girls around here look like snookie' is bullshit garbage and you know it. You have feelings for her and that's natural, but it's time to turn the tap off on that shit. She fucked you over and that's that. She thought you were cabbage compared to the other fuckstick. Listen to the other guys here that know their shit.

You'll be glad you did, otherwise tuck your junk.

 

[blazeftp]

Those 5 years I didn't have a single girlfriend nor did I want one. I went to college, partied and played the field and specifically told the chicks interested in me this is a fuck buddy situation as I don't want a gf. Of course after they sleep with you once or twice they become emotionally attached and think you will too. Of course I didn't, but I was honest up front. But that's a whole other thread.

Seems like a plan i would be interested in.
See how things go but i think she realized that i will be gone in a few days.
Facebook has had 25 comments in the past 4 hours of girls saying if i need to talk i can meet them for a drink.

i just went through the same thing.. baby daddy.. he used the kid to weasle his way back.. fuck it bro use it to your advantage.. cheat on her and through it in her face and make her feel like a fool and feel like you don't need her.. thats what i did.. hurt her before she hurts you... and move on..

I couldn't do that brah.
I am one of these people who live by a code of Honor.
If i was to cheat on her and break it i would be disappointed in myself that i lowered myself to doing it.

 

[oufinny]

Thanks for all the support guys.

I would play the field but where i live most girls have no self respect.
They are like snookie but uglier.

She called me there.
Told me she really wants to fix things.
So i stopped her told here tonight we should meet up at my flat give each other back our engagement rinds and say our goodbye's.
She sat and begged me for 20 minutes solid not to do that.
So told her we can still see each other but we will be just friends.
No kisisng cuddling fucking ect. She hates the fact she would never be able to kiss me...should have thought of that earlier.
We will be single for 3 weeks.
So if i am out want night in there is a girl i like who wants to go back to my place i am fucking her.after 3 weeks i have moved on and don't want her then it will stay that way.
If she does the same and so be it.

If she still wants me back she will have to win me back.
Will make sure there is another girl on the scene.
She wants me she will fight for me.
2 girls fighting over me....perfect time to ask for a threesome.


Funny how GFR knows how thick my penis is......

I don't know her so I will refrain from talking mad shit about this girl who is fucking with you for no good reason, oh wait, she doesn't have a clue what she wants and now is taking it out on you. Move on, live your life, get your ring back and hold on to it or sell it. Really, you gave it the good college try, she is a social pariah obviously and it is cramping your style. I was with that girl before, depressed, didn't take care of herself, resented me for trying to workout and look good... fuck that, and move on. The less you talk to her the better. Make sure all her shit is out, and I mean everything, she will leave shit behind on purpose. Tell her thanks but you don't want to see her and if you want to talk, you will contact her. Draw a hard line in the sand of she will be a leach. Get her and all her shit off your facebook page too ASAP!

 

[oufinny]

Seems like a plan i would be interested in.
See how things go but i think she realized that i will be gone in a few days.
Facebook has had 25 comments in the past 4 hours of girls saying if i need to talk i can meet them for a drink.

Meet each hot one for a drink and make sure your ex can see that you are meeting them on FB, totally worth fucking with her after what she pulled.

 

[REDDOG309]

Make sure you change your facebook status to single asap, if you haven't allready done that. she will cry when she sees it.

 

[5thgeartapped]

You'll be glad you did, otherwise tuck your junk.

LMAO!

It's better to cut your losses than constantly wondering if your girl is getting dick when you aren't with her.