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Just because your parents abused you doesn't validate abusive behavior. The logic that because you turned out ok, therefor it must be acceptable, is not very civilized approach. there are plenty of ways to discipline behavior without resulting in hitting a child in your care with a cord.
hypothetically if you were molested it probably would not cause any long term physical damage... Might sting might cause mental issues but no damage,right?
soft country? Maybe we should look up to radical Muslim nations and follow there lead on child care. That has clearly produced some well adjusted adults
and no you can't whip your kids ass with a cord and no expect to hear about it. If my flat out disapproval and vocal rejection of this behavior makes me a pc bitch... I would own the shit out if that.
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whip yourself with a cord..it wouldnt even hurt....I remember one time I worked with all these black guys at this warehouse...because I was so much bigger they constantly claimed they were going to beat me down with a snow shovel that was around I don't know why...well snow shovels are made of shit thin metal and they are flat....I got tired of hearing the shit..so I took the shovel and bashed myself in the head with it about 5 times....then I handed it to the black guy and told him it was his turn to hit me with it like he said ...of course he didn't...it is the perception of fear...not knowing if it will hurt or not that people are afraid of...the common person is so weak and full of fear...and a parent can use that...I don't want my son to be like me...but ill sure as shit scare him when I need to...I don't mind being the bad guy...even if he hates me...ill know... did everything I possibly could to teach him that in life there are consequences
I Understand the consequence logic. I understand that the cord may not have hurt that much. But I just can't watch that video and not be sick to my stomach(I'm going to be sick) This feeling is unwavering and I can't not see how anyone can approve the fathers actions and consider his actions anything but child abuse.
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shoot...I cant stand wooping my kid...but someone has to do it...I am the daddy...so I guess im stuck...kids are tough...my son threw rocks at a car when he was two....smacked his hand...he laughed...he put a kid in the hospital getting stitches...he said he was gonna bust the kids other eye cause he needed two black eyes...he is 6....my wifes brother as an older teen...shot at passing cars with a paintball gun...people could have died...he was supposedly an adult...no daddy in that house...no one to answer to...being a man is a burden...its not for everyone
Thats exactly what I try to do with my boys! works too. I have no issues with punishment for the right child. some honestly dont need it, some really do.
Who said they were abused? I was disciplined if I did something that was out of line or deserved a whupping. Yeah that guy was a little extreme but a properly handled spanking is much more effective than taking a kids iPhone, iPad, or computer. If I stole something, got in a fight, talked back to elders or whatever, I would think twice about it after a spanking then if someone took my cell phone. Think about it. Since the beginning of time, physical discipline has always been the method used. Teachers and principals did it to kids that weren't even their own. Now it's violent and abusive? In some cases yes, but in the right context it's more effective than grounding a kid or taking away their toys.
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the punishment needs to fit the crime
I fail to see how provocative dancing on a webcam justifies being whipped with an electrical cord...can't be injured? its easily enough force to puncture an eye, split a lip, knock out a tooth
its over the top
and I'm not a hippie feel good, never spank your kids mom
and I also don't think for a second my kids are angels cuz they're not but they are honestly damn good kids and a lot better behaved then I was at their ages
I fail to see how provocative dancing on a webcam justifies being whipped with an electrical cord...can't be injured? its easily enough force to puncture an eye, split a lip, knock out a tooth
its over the top
and I'm not a hippie feel good, never spank your kids mom
and I also don't think for a second my kids are angels cuz they're not but they are honestly damn good kids and a lot better behaved then I was at their ages
First of love the dig about being a man is a burden and how it's not for everyone...but I think your misunderstanding me. I'm not saying parents shouldn't be the primary discipline system. And I'm not saying that all parents would have different ways of parenting. I'm not even saying that some form of corporal punishement should not be part of the punishment. I'm saying whipping your kid with a fucking cord is abuse. Maybe I would give the parent a little rope here if the child that's being punished was being punshed for whipping another kid with a cord. Then maybe, but still.
i mean really you think whipping your kid with a cord is not abuse?
The posters did. Ass whupped, struck with whatever the parent could find, defending yourself causing more beatings...
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what I don't get is, whats the objective to beating them with a cord?
the take away is...if I get caught acting like a whore on the interwebs dad will whip me
the primary word or phrase here is..."if I get caught"
no ones ever heard of good little catholic girls that are out and out whores?
there should be punishment for sure but where in any of that are they taught NOT to act like whores? And I say whore loosely because ya maybe they are maybe theyre not
are they old enough to know its considered provocative? and if they are do they know it attracts largely negative attention? they obviously don't respect their fathers wishes on the matter or didn't know his stance on the matter ..so they're missing that vital piece of information and obviously have no relationship with the parent so he failed at his job so they get beat?
someone mentioned poverty and taking things away..nothing to take away
I've known plenty of dirt ass poor people whos children were flawlessly behaved if for no other reason than they loved and respected their parents.
the take away is...if I get caught acting like a whore on the interwebs dad will whip me
the primary word or phrase here is..."if I get caught"
no ones ever heard of good little catholic girls that are out and out whores?
there should be punishment for sure but where in any of that are they taught NOT to act like whores? And I say whore loosely because ya maybe they are maybe theyre not
are they old enough to know its considered provocative? and if they are do they know it attracts largely negative attention? they obviously don't respect their fathers wishes on the matter or didn't know his stance on the matter ..so they're missing that vital piece of information and obviously have no relationship with the parent so he failed at his job so they get beat?
someone mentioned poverty and taking things away..nothing to take away
I've known plenty of dirt ass poor people whos children were flawlessly behaved if for no other reason than they loved and respected their parents.
Yep.. he's going to jail...
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There's a difference between punishing and beating. If a father is too much of a bitch to spank his child with his hand, that doesn't make it right for him to pick up a weapon.
In another post, you wrote, "whip yourself with a cord..it wouldnt even hurt". How about I get a cord and go to work on you? While you're getting whipped, you can tell me how it doesn't hurt.
That reminds me of a joke.
This lawyer was late for court, so in a hurry he ran a stop sign. He gets pulled over and the cop asks him, what is the hurry ? You just ran a stop sign. He tells the cop his situation, the cop says, you still need to stop at the signs! The lawyer says, I slowed down and thats the same thing. The cop says, No, it isn't! The lawyer thinks, I'm smarter than this cop, I'll talk my way out of this.
So, after going in circles for a bit, the cop says please exit the vehicle, sir! The man gets out and says, what now.
The cop takes out his billy club and starts to whup the living shit out of the lawer, and says, now, do you want me to stop or just slow down!
This lawyer was late for court, so in a hurry he ran a stop sign. He gets pulled over and the cop asks him, what is the hurry ? You just ran a stop sign. He tells the cop his situation, the cop says, you still need to stop at the signs! The lawyer says, I slowed down and thats the same thing. The cop says, No, it isn't! The lawyer thinks, I'm smarter than this cop, I'll talk my way out of this.
So, after going in circles for a bit, the cop says please exit the vehicle, sir! The man gets out and says, what now.
The cop takes out his billy club and starts to whup the living shit out of the lawer, and says, now, do you want me to stop or just slow down!
you've got it ass backwards.
beatings are handed out with fists and hands. punishments utilize, switches, paddles, belts, etc.
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really? what's more personal. hitting or striking another with your fist or a 6' staff? is it more personal to get up and close and stab somebody or shoot them from afar?
your logic is what's absurd.
Well there could all ways be more to the story then what is let on, i am sure this is a huge built up of disobeying and ect. I find it funny though when we see a guy that murdered people, rapped, or prostitutes the first thing that comes to my mind is they should have got more ass whippings when they were a kid. Me personally I would never punish my kids like that, I do believe in an ass whipping, but a flat paddle will get the job done on the ass (dont want to hurt my lifting hand) also personally on the other side abuse or not I am happy to see a father that cares about his daughters, if its in a abusive way because if he truely did not care he would be whoring them out him self to pay his bills.
i remember hearing stories from my father and grand father how they get beat with every thing in the house, switches, spoons, shovels, belts, and the list goes on and those are the two most hard working men i know. My grandma use to beat the shit out of my dads ass, never struck his face but would beat the shit out of his ass because she felt it was her duty so my grandpa can come home and relax and not deal with it. but all of them grew up fine. Luckily after my first real ass whipping I learned FAST when my parents got that tone to listen. I was raised strict, be out of bed a certain time, bed maid and if you dont say yes sir or mame you got a back hand to the back of the head.
I dont condone what he did in that video by an means, but to me its better then doing nothing and allowing them to whore them selves out.
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I was raised with ass whoppings too. the belt or a switch. damn switch hurt bad. I remember my parents holding onto one of my hands and whoppin my ass with the other as I ran circles around them. Seems funny now. Wasn't then
lol @ Mr. Patriot , you mad bro?
Completely agree on this one bro, see this grounding and imma take your cell phone approach used on my younger cousins and that crap dont work! They are some damn trouble makers, they made us older cousins look like angels. So yes it depends on the the offense but they need more strict discipline. My younger cousins are always talking about how they hate their parents and that they dont love them blah blah blah, I feel like taking my belt off and showing them some really love. Spankings! They are spoiled rotten and dont get discipline they all have different personalities, but they all are getting into trouble at a lot younger age cuz they admit they can do whatever they want cuz if they get spanked or whatever they will call the police, thats what they are taught at school, to report it as abuse! SMH!
Punishment is ok, with belt, hand, paddle, switch, as long as its in the rear and it causes some discomfort. Its doesnt need to make you bleed cuz thats abuse. Also you shouldnt hit them in the face or punch them or shove them on the floor thats abuse.
My father always said to spank in the rear and in private when you get home. My mom did it whenever but it honestly didnt hurt much cuz shes a really tiny woman. Theres a big difference to me between abuse and discipline.
Discipline will cause some discomfort to where you will think twice next time.
Abuse will hurt and scar you to where pain and injury occur. Big difference.
When I was spanked I felt it all day sometimes next day depending on the severity of my offense. But never did I feel injured or bleed or lacerated or hand a hand print for a full week. It hurt but went away, but the lesson stayed with me to respect and obey my parents.
I believe in the hand of justice and will take every thing they have in a heart beat. My wife and i all ready decided our kids will earn every thing and only get what they need. clothes, food, school stuff, and sporting equipement or any type of recreational stuff that is done out doors. video games, cell phones, laptops, tablets ect are all not needed for life. If they really fuck up they will be finding there only sense of enjoyment is kicking a can in the back yard. I plan on raising my kids on the farm where they will learn how to manage a paycheck and work. I maybe young but beleive in older generations disapline worked much better. I wont ask how do you feel about it, this is my house my rules.
My Bosses son tried to pull that CPS shit and he said ok go take a picture of your ps3, clothes, AR-15 (yes his 9 year old has one) rc cars and ect. Because in a foster home you will have holes in your shoes and eat shit food every day. The life you live then will seem like paradise... Kid was pissed because his dad sold his PSP at a garage sale because he wouldnt put it away during dinner.
My Bosses son tried to pull that CPS shit and he said ok go take a picture of your ps3, clothes, AR-15 (yes his 9 year old has one) rc cars and ect. Because in a foster home you will have holes in your shoes and eat shit food every day. The life you live then will seem like paradise... Kid was pissed because his dad sold his PSP at a garage sale because he wouldnt put it away during dinner.
Not at all Chico, why do you ask.
Responsible discipline like I described never hurt anyone emotionally and physically. I dont know anyone who says that discipline like I described left them scarred or did them wrong. On the contrary they all admit it was good. It wasnt abuse it was discipline. As a child we didnt understand it, maybe thought that it was abuse, but now that we are older we see that it was good. Some of you should volunteer to go to school sometime to just observe the behavior that goes on now a days in school, you would be surprised to see the respect they have for elders. Most of these kids admit they do whatever they want and theres no one to answer to at home.
Discipline is GOOD
Abuse is wrong.
Just my opinion, not trying insult anyone, were all friends here sharing experiences and opinions like good respectful adults.
Discipline is GOOD
Abuse is wrong.
Just my opinion, not trying insult anyone, were all friends here sharing experiences and opinions like good respectful adults.
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my teenagers legitimately need their computer (that they share) for school
my schedule doesn't lend itself to taking them to a library for homework, where they have powerpoints and what not to make for classes
and they arent using my laptop for it..because it has all my files for work and I fuck off on places like this
they have cells so I can use the gps on it to make sure when theyre staying after school for sports theyre really at school
they have nooks to read
there is no gaming system in my house. Hell we don't even have cable.
I make no apologies for any of that nor do I feel they're somehow spoiled for any of it.
nevermind which, Im not sure what that has to do with BEATING a kid.
