Great Post here Shorty!! I totally feel the same way you and Greeky do..and I struggle daily with the same things as you two. It's very hard to stay positive & Confident..I Want to be there..but I'm not.. And I think it's partly my Mom's fault also. Just like you said Pam.shortstuff said:Babe you need to be confident, no matter what you look like, which I know you look amazing, you are no whre overweight and obese like 48-50% of this country, and you at least know what you need to do which is a step above so many people. BE CONFIDENT!! That is the most attractive thing about a person. That will help with men, jobs, family, everything! Also with your mom, have you ever taken her out, the two of you for coffee or dinner or something where yout wo can talk, and only you two and you can tell her how she makes you feel and what is going on with you? I found that is what helped me with my mom. She is the reason/one of them/ that I am like I am, with being so concerned with my weight, my looks, how thin I am and all that. When I told her this it really hit her what was going on. Now we have a much better relationship and maybe that could help???![]()
Babe serisouly if you want I can PM you my number, always feel free to email me, casue I feel like we are kindred, as much as I seem like I am together on here, there is so much I fight with on a daily basis just to keep myself going. This is why I do so many things so that I rarely have down time so I don't think about what I hate about myself, especially my weight!!!
Anyway..just wanted you two to know that I'm here for you. Both! I have AIM also!!!!!
Hugs to you Greeky!!!!!


Babe serisouly if you want I can PM you my number, always feel free to email me, casue I feel like we are kindred, as much as I seem like I am together on here, there is so much I fight with on a daily basis just to keep myself going. This is why I do so many things so that I rarely have down time so I don't think about what I hate about myself, especially my weight!!!

I was driving for like 4 hours yesterday and then went out to dinner til wayyyyyyy too late and came home and crashed I am sooooooo tired still. Well enough about me, hun youa re awesome and everything will workout I promise!!!



