Hard- ons

[John H.]

dear john,
i am 5'9" and weigh 126lbs. my waist is 24" and i am by no means skinny. i prefer levis button fly jeans, men's w a slight flare to the leg n a somewhat low rise. i usually wear a white top of some sort a tomb raider style t or a feminine blouse. my vagina .... wait why the hell would i write about my vagina?

i can understand where you are coming from though.
i do think it is natural to sometimes have an erection at the wrong time or place and that it is not really anything to feel shame about. but we live in a society where common decency dictates that when these occasions arise men try to be discreet and or modest. it has nothing to do with religion or not understanding or appreciating the male body or nature it is just a personal choice by me and many many many others to not be in the company of someones engorged tool that we are not intimate with. i would hope that you would respect other people enough to extend to them the courtesy of complying with the norms of our society and not go out of your way to gain attention or shock people.

Rock,

I do NOT go out of my way on this at all. I never intended people think that at all. I certainly do not appreciate the reference some have made to the possibility of me somehow someway abusing others in any way! THAT IS MOST DEFINITELY NOT ME IN ANY WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I was speaking as a mature adult about a question I feel many Men might have.

You are right, Women have a vagina. There is no "size" issue directly related here. And as a Women you can not personally comment - at least with regard to this as a personal attribute. Or maybe even understand.

As for "religion" IT CERTAINLY IS "RELIGION" that is at the forefront of this as far as any "damning" is concerned. "Religion" has always damned Sex and anything to do with it. If they had their way there would be NO SEX of ANY
KIND or expression in any manner whatsoever!!! Perhaps "religion" feels the only way to procreation or Sex for any reason would "ONLY BE" through "immaculate conception" and ONLY RARELY.

And as for "society" - please do not suggest "society" is "normal" - NOTHING COULD BE FURTHER FROM THE TRUTH.
"Society" is just another form of glorified politics. Same as "religion".

John H.

 

[bio-chem]

and on a lighter note.

if you think Silence of the Lambs is what happens when john h walks into his barn
you might be a redneck or um you might be right.

wow that about sums it up doesnt it. ha ha

 

[bio-chem]

john your to get some reading glases. i have said like at lest 50 times in posts directly to you i am a bio-chem major. maybe you should look up what that means, so you dont sound so ignorant. im not a biology major nor am i a double biology/chemistry major. bio-chem deals with the chemistry of the body. your hatred has definitly led you down the path to the dark side. and you need to re-read all of rockgazer69 posts to you on this thread. your not paying attention to what she is saying at all, you are just going off the hilt like a close minded fool. everything she has been saying accepts your view that hard-ons are natural (a view we all feel) yet she understands and is trying to explain in an appropriate way there is a time and a place for them. and anywhere around children is not appropriate. once again john boy grow up and rejoin society. i know your hurt because you where rejected as a little kid (but thats normal for little kids to reject people who are different) but as long as you play nice as an adult you wont have the problems you currently experience with society.

 

[John H.]

john your to get some reading glases. i have said like at lest 50 times in posts directly to you i am a bio-chem major. maybe you should look up what that means, so you dont sound so ignorant. im not a biology major nor am i a double biology/chemistry major. bio-chem deals with the chemistry of the body. your hatred has definitly led you down the path to the dark side. and you need to re-read all of rockgazer69 posts to you on this thread. your not paying attention to what she is saying at all, you are just going off the hilt like a close minded fool. everything she has been saying accepts your view that hard-ons are natural (a view we all feel) yet she understands and is trying to explain in an appropriate way there is a time and a place for them. and anywhere around children is not appropriate. once again john boy grow up and rejoin society. i know your hurt because you where rejected as a little kid (but thats normal for little kids to reject people who are different) but as long as you play nice as an adult you wont have the problems you currently experience with society.

Bio,

Are you "confessing"? - you mention about hard-ons "...(a view we all FEEL) - (caps INTENDED by me)..."?

Really now, it IS you that is being immature here. Not me. I was speaking about hard-ons being natural and that they can naturally show and do AND SHOULD - throughout history and ARE INTENDED. And have VALID PURPOSES. I see you like to bring "little kids" into the discussion - here's the thing - little kids are NOT going to feel anything is wrong UNLESS someone like you would give them reason to think there was something wrong. An ADULT would explain it as an adult on the level the child could understand AND MAKE NO BIG DEAL ABOUT IT and speak about it calmly as it IS - COMPLETELY NATURAL and something that WILL HAPPEN from time to time. The "horror" of a hard-on is CREATED by people like yourself - zealots - who are so "puritannical" and for some reason can not SEE AND UNDERSTAND things THAT HAPPEN NATURALLY and ARE INTENDED TO HAPPEN NATURALLY and LOOK for "reasons" to DAMN life itself. I can assure you that any child that wanted to know about a Man that has a hard-on would get an explanation that would not cause them ANY harm from me - or horror. Because I have explained it even to my own children. They know and completely understand what it is all about and the natural reasons for them. And are in NO WAY somehow "horrorific" as you would have people "believe" people should be "horrified" when they come upon a Man that happens to have a natural occurance INTENDED BY Mother Nature. And the same happens with horses all the time on farms. So AN ADULT WHO IS MATURE will explain it to a child in such a manner that the child will understand completely. And you make sure they do understand that it is a completely NATURAL happening. A NATURAL part of life and living and that many Men will experience this aspect of life. I can just imagine what you would do if you saw a stallion in a field with a hard-on - you'd run home crying "in horror" and terrified at the sight of a horse with a two-foot long dick... GROW UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And as to your "studying" about the chemistry of the body - I doubt very highly you will be much of a success - you really should think about becoming a "preacher" or "reverand" or "politican" or "law enforcement officer" - these people, like yourself, have tunnel-vision and are very bigoted and full of hate - you would fit right in. Like a glove.

You would never know CONstructive DISCUSSION if it stared you in the face or hit you in the ass. Your ONLY focus in life is its DEstruction wherever you could be successful... GROW UP!!!! Learn to BE a Man and not just "dress the part"... Real people ARE NOT FOOLED.



John H.

 

[bio-chem]

john boy are you really this ignorant? or are you trying to piss people off?

 

[John H.]

john boy are you really this ignorant? or are you trying to piss people off?

Bio,

Have you ever heard the saying: "It is better to be pissed off than pissed on"?

John H.

 

[njc]

According to testimony Micheal Jackson walked in on a couple of his boyfriends, pants down, erection exposed and started telling the startled kids about how natural it is.

 

[John H.]

According to testimony Micheal Jackson walked in on a couple of his boyfriends, pants down, erection exposed and started telling the startled kids about how natural it is.

Hi NJC,

I never really liked Michael Jackson EVEN before all this. I just never really did. I really did not like Elvis Presley either. Nothing really personal - I just "didn't".. I am not really convinced he (Michael Jackson) really molested anyone though. It sounds kinda "fishy" - I would not be at all surprised if it is not the money some are after... I think he has real issues revolving around his LOSS of his childhood and that he seems to need to be around young people to somehow experience BEING a child to somehow "replace" or "experience" what he feels he may have lost. I highly doubt he really means to "harm" anyone but I ALWAYS like to hear ALL the FACTS before I make any final "decision" about "whatever". I certainly hope FOR THE SAKE OF THE CHILDREN that HE NEVER did anything - because..... ( I will not get into "specifics"....)


Take Care, John H.

 

[bio-chem]

Bio,

Have you ever heard the saying: "It is better to be pissed off than pissed on"?

John H.

john boy please dont turn this into a thread about how much you like to recieve "golden showers"

 

[John H.]

john boy please dont turn this into a thread about how much you like to recieve "golden showers"

Bio,

Are you sure you are not "closeted"?


And have "secret desires"?

John H.

 

[bio-chem]

how does that make me closeted? and my secret desires are not so secret. i want a blonde a brunette and a redhead alone on a tropical island

 

[John H.]

how does that make me closeted? and my secret desires are not so secret. i want a blonde a brunette and a redhead alone on a tropical island

Bio,

Being a "zealot" have you told your girlfriend this? You did say you had a girlfriend as I remember. Does she know of "your desires" and is she "fine with it"? And aren't you "breaking the law" by wanting to have TWO women alone on a tropical island? I'd say there is some hope for you if you really DO want this but if it is just a "vision", well......

I hope you are being honest at least.

John H.

 

[bio-chem]

as of right now i dont currently have a girlfriend john boy. but if i did i did i most certainly wouldnt act on this desire if in the 1/1 billionth of a chance i got the oportunity to be on a tropical island alone with these 3 imaginary women. i guess thats what commitment means john boy. truthfully monogamy is a good thing. keeping one woman happy is difficult enough, keeping three would be damn near impossible. and for being so open minded you assume a lot about other people. how am i breaking the law by wanting three women on a tropical island?

 

[John H.]

as of right now i dont currently have a girlfriend john boy. but if i did i did i most certainly wouldnt act on this desire if in the 1/1 billionth of a chance i got the oportunity to be on a tropical island alone with these 3 imaginary women. i guess thats what commitment means john boy. truthfully monogamy is a good thing. keeping one woman happy is difficult enough, keeping three would be damn near impossible. and for being so open minded you assume a lot about other people. how am i breaking the law by wanting three women on a tropical island?

Bio,

You are "religious" aren't you? Didn;t you tell me that? And by your own admission a "zealot" as well? (Unless I am mistaken). So aren't you then "sinning" "according to the Bible" if you DESIRE these Women and it is JUST AS BAD - supposedly - same as having BEEN with these Women.... Something about "plucking the eye out..."?

I thought you told me you DID now have a girlfriend? What do you do when you get "horny"? Just let it alone or do something about it? Do you find a Female to get your release or what? Or do you take care of it yourself - which IS a Man having Sex with a Man even though the Man is one and the same Man... NOT being disrespectful or flippant but asking One Man to Another Man. Or do you tie it in "a knot" and "suffer" ?

Sometimes I just let it alone and "let it 'suffer' as a way of 'strengthening'", especially at night and I have put a hole in the blanket that covers me... It even surprised me. I did not know I had it "in me" to be able to do that even to a blanket.

When reading what I write BE MATURE about what I say and DISCUSS as a mature adult Male. Anger gets no one anywhere and solves nothing. This is supposed to be a DISCUSSION about basic facts...

John H.

 

[bio-chem]

yeah im religious and...? the truth is i find a wet dream a lot more satisfying than masturbation. i must be blessed because i have them 1 or 2 times a week. so i dont just go find a female for a "release" . what are we animals now to use others for our desires? the bible says it is wrong to lust after a woman. i never said i had three specific women in mind on my tropical island. and even if i did its not lusting after them until i think really detailed explicit stuff about what id like to do to them on that island. and by word of advice john boy dont try and quote from the bible because you are really bad at it and your interpretation is going to be wrong

 

[John H.]

yeah im religious and...? the truth is i find a wet dream a lot more satisfying than masturbation. i must be blessed because i have them 1 or 2 times a week. so i dont just go find a female for a "release" . what are we animals now to use others for our desires? the bible says it is wrong to lust after a woman. i never said i had three specific women in mind on my tropical island. and even if i did its not lusting after them until i think really detailed explicit stuff about what id like to do to them on that island. and by word of advice john boy dont try and quote from the bible because you are really bad at it and your interpretation is going to be wrong

Bio,

Sorry, but YOU ARE A 'sinner' by your own admission because you even had the "thought" - it does not absolve you in any way that you did not think of specific women or that it was in any "detail" or not. The idea was on your "lips"!

What do you think of in your wet dreams? You can not have a wet dream without "causing it" to happen. You need to take more control of yourself - NEVER allow yourself to have wet dreams. And never jack off or have yourself jacked off. That is a weakness. According to "the Bible" you are wasting your seed... It would be better for you to go find your dead Brother's wife and fuck her than waste your seed - according to the Bible - if I remember it right...

I say you should put it to "good use". (There is a study done in Australia I believe recently that says if you DO NOT masturbate regularly you will have a good chance of having prostate cancer...) And the "well" is always "replenished" and if you do not "drink from it" you will end up "overflowing" at the very least....

John H.

 

[Little Wing]

i think it is better in the belly of a whore than upon the ground? the bible thing about wasting seed...

 

[craig777]

i think it is better in the belly of a whore than upon the ground? the bible thing about wasting seed...

How does that work after a vasectomy, I don't waste any seed

 

[bio-chem]

Bio,

Sorry, but YOU ARE A 'sinner' by your own admission because you even had the "thought" - it does not absolve you in any way that you did not think of specific women or that it was in any "detail" or not. The idea was on your "lips"!

What do you think of in your wet dreams? You can not have a wet dream without "causing it" to happen. You need to take more control of yourself - NEVER allow yourself to have wet dreams. And never jack off or have yourself jacked off. That is a weakness. According to "the Bible" you are wasting your seed... It would be better for you to go find your dead Brother's wife and fuck her than waste your seed - according to the Bible - if I remember it right...

I say you should put it to "good use". (There is a study done in Australia I believe recently that says if you DO NOT masturbate regularly you will have a good chance of having prostate cancer...) And the "well" is always "replenished" and if you do not "drink from it" you will end up "overflowing" at the very least....

John H.

look dumbass dont try and interpret the bible for me ok. to understand the bible you have to read it in the spirit in which it was written. something your incapable of until you change your expressed beliefs on it.

neither are you my religious authority so dont try and teach me on points of doctrine. only rarely can someone "control" dreams because there is that whole unconsious issue to deal with. im not talking about day dreaming here im talking about REM sleep. and a wet dream is by no ways a sin. it is a natural physiolocial process of the body to keep cum healthy. its not a sin, ive never heard of a religion that believes so. mine certainly doesnt.

the story of wasting seed has nothing to do with the fact that cum went somewhere other than a pussy. when he was commanded to raise seed unto his brother by having a child with his brothers wife, it was a commandment in that time in eastern culture to continue his brothers line. when he pulled out he in effect was denying his dead brother a heritage and only had sex with the wife for lustfull purposes.

it would be nice if you could understand these things john boy but i know with your current mind set you just incapable right now. and to your first statement yes john im a sinner. i have never professed not to be. i like others around me sin every day.

 

[John H.]

i think it is better in the belly of a whore than upon the ground? the bible thing about wasting seed...

Hi Rock,


No, I remember that one and I would DISAGREE - some females NEVER deserve getting any... And you know those I am talking about. It WOULD BE MUCH BETTER to just let it hit the ground than allow it inside some females - trust me - but then any Man that would even put themselves into a situation with that "type" female... There is a passage - can't remember where exactly - where it says that when a Man dies his brother is supposed to take over his "duties" with the brother's wife - including... Wish I could remember where that is...

I think those that wrote the Bible - Men, over 40 too - screwed up a lot. Oh there are some things that are just fine and make sense but then there are those areas where they just plain f**ked up... And are DEAD WRONG.

The Bible is a collection of literature as with any other collection ...

Take Care, John H.

 

[John H.]

How does that work after a vasectomy, I don't waste any seed

Hi Craig,

I would think it would be "wasting it" (according to the Bible) too for it would have no "end result" and thus be a "waste" but then how about jacking off - unless you allowed someone to swallow it - I wonder if that is considered "wasting" it too? I would think not myself. If someone wanted to swallow it I would think it would be putting it to "good use" for sure - and in some cases even "better use"...

Take Care, John H.

 

[John H.]

look dumbass dont try and interpret the bible for me ok. to understand the bible you have to read it in the spirit in which it was written. something your incapable of until you change your expressed beliefs on it.

neither are you my religious authority so dont try and teach me on points of doctrine. only rarely can someone "control" dreams because there is that whole unconsious issue to deal with. im not talking about day dreaming here im talking about REM sleep. and a wet dream is by no ways a sin. it is a natural physiolocial process of the body to keep cum healthy. its not a sin, ive never heard of a religion that believes so. mine certainly doesnt.

the story of wasting seed has nothing to do with the fact that cum went somewhere other than a pussy. when he was commanded to raise seed unto his brother by having a child with his brothers wife, it was a commandment in that time in eastern culture to continue his brothers line. when he pulled out he in effect was denying his dead brother a heritage and only had sex with the wife for lustfull purposes.

it would be nice if you could understand these things john boy but i know with your current mind set you just incapable right now. and to your first statement yes john im a sinner. i have never professed not to be. i like others around me sin every day.

Bio,

Me? A "dumbass"? Not really. You might like to "think that"..

Are you telling me that YOU KNOW ALL the Bible says - AND MEANS? I could say - just as you or any other "religious type" would say - that the Bible MEANS that EVEN IF YOU HAVE WET DREAMS YOU ARE SINNING. And it would hold just as much "water" as anything you would have to say "according to your interpretation"... Why would what I say be no more valid that what you say? Who makes "you" "the authority"? Or anyone else? The person that "knows it all". I could be just as "right on".

Remember it is YOU that is "blaming me" when you should be "blaming religion" and "religious beliefs" that have NO BASIS in FACT - how IT REALLY IS. But then when YOU "subscribe" to a "religion" aren't you "supposed to just accept and believe"? No matter what?!

I had a "vision" - and "it said" that "whenever you (meaning you) have a wet dream you are sinning" and "are damned" - see how that "works"? I TOO can play the same "game" and that is WHY there are THOUSANDS of "religions" EACH with their own "beliefs" but that does NOT MEAN that those "beliefs" as based ON FACTS as in those that exist in Nature and the Natural World.

"The natural physiolocal (I am NOT sure what you are saying here with this word) process of the body to keep cum healthy" - HELL beating off is a NATURAL form of keeping cum healthy. It does NOT have to JUST BE a wet dream you know... Nature PROVIDES MANY avenues for a Human Being for release and "releasing steam" - otherwise we would "blow up" - "explode" - and I do not think you'd want someone to "explode" all over you from being "pent up" would you? You say "your religion" does not believe - well what about someone else's "religion"? Is YOUR "religion" more "right"? Or "wrong"? WHO makes the "final determination" as to WHOSE "religion" is the "right one" or not?

The story you mention about "wasting seed" - hell that is a BROTHER FUCKING HIS BROTHER'S WIFE - sure it is AFTER the Brother's death. But why couldn't the woman just marry someone else? And what if the Man is not capable of creating life because of some "biological problem" - would someone then be "allowed" to fuck the woman just to keep the "heritage"?

I BELIEVE cum is supposed to BE where IT IS WANTED - given to those that APPRECIATE it and its meanings and purposes. And that includes ALL purposes. I would consider putting my cum into a pussy that did not REALLY want it a REAL WASTE - of my cum and my time and energy - and even myself. And I would be STUPID for even putting it there in the first place because given how things go especially today she would end up having a baby (I never fail!) and wanting "support" from me until the child was born. I hold life SACRED. And the Sexual "communication" between two people - Male and/or Female - SACRED. I NEVER use people and they do not use me. If someone just wants to swallow a load and I KNOW they care about me I will fill them up. We BOTH will BE HAPPY. And it IS NOT wasting my cum. It is going to a DESERVING INDIVIDUAL. And WITH PURPOSE AND MEANING and IS SACRED>

John H.

 

[LeanDreamer]

Ok this is an old post but I'm new and couldn't resist ....
There should be another "Option" to the poll ....

O I'd be happy just getting one!

 

[MTN WARRIOR]

Hard-ons.

So what do you honestly think? What is your viewpoint on them. Do you think it is "right" for some Guy to show his or should it be "hidden" somehow and why?

Take Care, John H.

WTF is wrong with you you homo, cant you post anything in regards to BBing. All you ever ppost is hand up ass, show my dick cock sucking bullshit. Go away.

 

[bio-chem]

john boy the flaws in the logic of your last post reveal themselves

 

[John H.]

Ok this is an old post but I'm new and couldn't resist ....
There should be another "Option" to the poll ....

O I'd be happy just getting one!

Hi Lean,

I should have made one with more options I guess. Sorry Buddy!

And the truth is that as Men age for sure they all end up wishing they could do it again and better. I think if God had made it a muscle as with any other muscle we could have maintained it much better and developed it - maybe to the "extreme"?

Take Care, John H.

 

[John H.]

john boy the flaws in the logic of your last post reveal themselves

Bio boy,

Do you even HAVE one?

Just wondering. Maybe it is "lost"? They say things to atrophy if not "utilized"...

John H.

 

[bio-chem]

have one what you idiot. are you saying having a last post or what? make some sense for once will you already.

 

[John H.]

have one what you idiot. are you saying having a last post or what? make some sense for once will you already.

Bio boy,

May I suggest you take a course in remedial reading. And keep taking it until you get it.

You seem to have a problem comprehending much of anything. Your brain seems to be like a steel trap and you only "let in" what is "comfortable" for you or you "agree with". It will help you to learn.

John H.

 

[gococksDJS]

Bio boy,

May I suggest you take a course in remedial reading. And keep taking it until you get it.

You seem to have a problem comprehending much of anything. Your brain seems to be like a steel trap and you only "let in" what is "comfortable" for you or you "agree with". It will help you to learn.

John H.

John H, you are the one who only lets in what you agree with. Everything else is the spawn of Satan, zealots, and religious bigots.