Yup .. my bad.bulletproof1 said:
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Wow, quite possibly the most perfect woman.shutupntra1n said:Okay I see your point but your telling the wrong girl. I for one like to watch "the game", I sleep after sex (rarely cuddling), don't want my bf meeting my family so soon, don't want a ring until I'm over 40, hate shopping except for grocery shopping, hate cooking, don't like the color pink, love cars, don't mind burping or other bodily functions (be creative), love action movies, don't spend alot of time getting dressed to go anywhere, never cry, curse too much while drinking (im italian), like mags like fhm and dont care if my bf orders them by mail monthly, hate long phone conversations, don't like to be paid for or bought gifts without a holiday to account for it, don't want diamonds, hate gossip, don't watch the show Friends, rather watch cops, prefer my breasts to shrink, and well i think you get the point.
I for one understand the common woman well. She's everything I try not to be.
Robert, this is a very difficult question for me. There is a side of me that thinks it was an invention of women to force men into a life of service in exchange for an opportunity to replicate themselves (i.e. have children) and to have the comforts of a spouse. There is another side of me that sees a lot of merit, balance, commitment, companionship and stability in it and its a mutually beneficial thing to both spouses (and children) and the nucleus of society. Then there are the natural urges in men (can't speak for the women) that compel us toward change, adventure and challenge. It all starts to sound like religion the deeper you think about it because to stay with a person requires sacrifice and commitment and the desire and will to stay there because you believe in it; things that are very similar in religion. We all have our good days and our less spectacular days. I have wondered about the validity and properness of some of the concepts of Polyamory because I have definitely "loved" other women (but not given myself to intimacy outside of marriage). But then again "loving" and "being in love" are two different things also - as is complacency and being comfortable with the status quo. There are also undoubtedly the inability of most humans to be fair and mature in the pragmatic details of having multiple simultaneous spouses and humans are known to be self destructive and a jealous species when it comes to things that are close to us.Robert DiMaggio said:
Good question.
OD
As always, Saphy has spiced up my work day with her postsSapphire said:Hmm.. well I have been with my bf for over a year and we always have some sorta sex either oral or regular or both at least 5 or 6 times a week. Even if he is tired he gives me a sleeping pill,our code word for oral, until I c*m at least a few times.
As a matter of fact I was promised plenty of good sugar later tonight, so I am hoping for some 69 action, my personal fav!
I have a very very high sex drive and if it was up to me we would do it everyday!
BUT I will admit when we first started dating we rarely left the bedroom, the sex was more urgent!
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I feel the same way and I buy the Playboys and FHM for my old man. We are like two drinking buddies. We were B4 we decided to tie the knot, which we sometimes think it's stupid because the only thing that is different now is we have a paper that make it legal. Better to stay single and have fun, or live together and screw.shutupntra1n said:Okay I see your point but your telling the wrong girl. I for one like to watch "the game", I sleep after sex (rarely cuddling), don't want my bf meeting my family so soon, don't want a ring until I'm over 40, hate shopping except for grocery shopping, hate cooking, don't like the color pink, love cars, don't mind burping or other bodily functions (be creative), love action movies, don't spend alot of time getting dressed to go anywhere, never cry, curse too much while drinking (im italian), like mags like fhm and dont care if my bf orders them by mail monthly, hate long phone conversations, don't like to be paid for or bought gifts without a holiday to account for it, don't want diamonds, hate gossip, don't watch the show Friends, rather watch cops, prefer my breasts to shrink, and well i think you get the point.
I for one understand the common woman well. She's everything I try not to be.
We go to bars pick each other up, but not before he lets other guys try to pick me up. It really spices shit up.
We fight all the time and have great makeup sex. It's not "love making", its good old fashioned HOT SEX! I'd rather be at a sports bar watching football than hang around and put on make up and buy 50 pairs of shoes. I don't get it.?.
Make it what you want it to be and Communicate or all shit in time goes out the window.
O man, somebody said 'maid outfit' 
Spike,
That's a great pic, but I dont care for the way 'airbrush paint' tastes
As far as the lack of communication and sex go, I always kind've felt that sex is communication. So I could understand that.
Is lis in the mood to communicate?
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I'm glad me and my girl don't fuck like we did when we met, 2-4 times a day 7 day's a week doesn't fit in my schedule any more. We still have a little foreplay every morning, but the sex is down to 1-4 times a week now after 5 years.
I think morning sex is incredibly important, and am convinced it will have both of the two individuals thinking healthy thought about their partner at work (that would REALLY lower my stress levels)
The only thing I can think of that would be better, would be to have a g/f or wife visit me during lunch .
The only thing I can think of that would be better, would be to have a g/f or wife visit me during lunch
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bulletproof1 said:you want something new? buy some handcuffs, buy a maids outfit, buy a 12 inch long dildo, etc. just because it is the same person doesnt mean it has to be boring.
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Let's see... communication is key to a great sexual relationship... uhm well next to being still sexually attracted to your partner. Bring change into the bedroom... the above mentioned idea's.. can be both good and bad. Good if both parties are more than willing to experience something new. Bad if one thinks otherwise... without communicating and working these things in you can be throwing the wrong signals.. if can be taken as you are not attracted to that person anymore and have to find a new means to stay attracted. You could also find yourself being labelled as some weird perv because what you may consider a urn on isn't to your partner. Not every person thinks being tied to a bed, blindfolded as a turn on. Some women actually consider this as a way for men to play out their "rape" fantasies. Go figure.
For me it's a question on monogamy. I think it's a great thing just not natural.
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yes of course it should be talked about in advance. your significant other may be a little scared if they walk in the door, you tie them to the ceiling fan, and start spanking them with a whip. i believe spice and a little adventure is what keeps a relationship strong though. communication in bed is crucial. i am willing to bet that most of the people that cheat on their significant other in this world never told their partner exactly what they liked in bed or how it could be improved. the "victims" never got a fair chance to fullfill their partner because they were never told what they needed. tell your significant other what you want and need. as long as its not scat or something, im certain they will accomodate. make sense?
bulletproof1 said:i am willing to bet that most of the people that cheat on their significant other in this world never told their partner exactly what they liked in bed or how it could be improved. the "victims" never got a fair chance to fullfill their partner because they were never told what they needed. tell your significant other what you want and need. as long as its not scat or something, im certain they will accomodate. make sense?
I tend to believe people cheat, while in a long term relationship, because they are bored, tired, not excited, etc. In other words they are bored of Orange juice everyday and when "apple" juice come along well......
and I do believe Prince... uhm Robert said it correctly 3 to 4 times a month. However ask any of your longtime friends in a long relationship.. say 3 years or more and they will tell you 3 to 4 times a week. People tend to lie about this subject. I guess they assume if they say less then people assume the relationship is down the tubes or worse, the plumbing ain't working.
After a few years of marriage in became a Sunday thing. For me it was a matter of not being sexually attracted to her, and boredom to a point. Her sister thought something was wrong with us because her current BF (my best friend) and her had sex at least 5 times or more a week. He'd wake her up when he was down flipping channels at 1am to get a little night cap. I insisted that was not good. She insisted she loved it. "wake me up and fuck me, Hell yeah!" Of course when the relationship ended all I remember was how much she bitched about him waking her up to have sex. Of course she also realized that his idea of relationship is all about convience and getting some. I warned her... I know him like a brother.. Oh well. LOL
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Who said maid outfit? More questions you already know the answer too LukeLuke9583 said:
Spike,
That's a great pic, but I dont care for the way 'airbrush paint' tastes
As far as the lack of communication and sex go, I always kind've felt that sex is communication. So I could understand that.
Is lis in the mood to communicate?
Well I think if it doesn't kill you and your partner asks you to try something new you should give it a go. That's the sacrifice part
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If you are ever lucky enough to work in an office and have senority and blinds on your windows with Do Not Disturb signs hanging like some high ceo of some big corp then you would be lucky enough to have breakfast, lunch, dinner and your afternoon coffee break frequented as such. Maybe you should change your occupation?Luke9583 said:I think morning sex is incredibly important, and am convinced it will have both of the two individuals thinking healthy thought about their partner at work (that would REALLY lower my stress levels)
The only thing I can think of that would be better, would be to have a g/f or wife visit me during lunch
Luke9583 said:I think morning sex is incredibly important, and am convinced it will have both of the two individuals thinking healthy thought about their partner at work (that would REALLY lower my stress levels)
The only thing I can think of that would be better, would be to have a g/f or wife visit me during lunch
Luke this is one of the cruel situations in human evolution. Most men get a super erection in the morning when the wake up. It's believed to be an evolution thing since men would be working all day in the fields or hunting and this was a good time to replicate and reproduce. Unfortunately most women do not seem to be "morning people". In fact, I know of no women who seem to be aroused or in the mood in the morning immediately after waking. I could be wrong but that has been my experience and what I have heard from other men.
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Couple of questions:OceanDude said:
Are you brushing first?
Did you make her breakfast to fuel up after the session?
It simply means that the guys are ready and the woman aren't...Robert DiMaggio said:
OD
shutupntra1n said:Couple of questions:
Are you brushing first?
Did you make her breakfast to fuel up after the session?
You are mistaken to think that its a personal problem. As I indicated most of the guys I talk to say the same thing - women are just not ready for attention when they first wake up as much as the guys are.
OD
Awww man, don't jinx meOceanDude said:
I must be on a lucky streak
Fellas fellas ... it is all in the start of the relationship. Get that going on from the begining and you got it all you want. Women train us the way they want, you do a lil' harmless training your own self. Pretty soon a girl will ask if you are OK when you don't try and enjoy a hoizontal breakfast ...
Of course if she is hung over all bets are off ... you wake the lady up it better be with asprin and flowers.
Of course if she is hung over all bets are off ... you wake the lady up it better be with asprin and flowers.
OceanDude said:
I gotta tell ya OD, I am not like that!! I LOVE morning sex, it's the best!! My bf wakes up with some major wood and I do not let it go to waste!! I mean if I am late for work it's different but when there is time, AM SEX
s!!!Hmm I do have to admit though I do not like to watch most sports or Cops, I can cook , I really LOVE high heels and getting a bit dressed up, I can take a while to get ready if we are going out, LIKE the color pink.. and I love to cuddle after sex
oh well I ain't perfect!
Sapphire, Sometimes you're responses are so perfect, that I think you do it just to get praised
