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You know, I was just guessing at the "let's get my sistas to gang up on him" and presumed you'd gone running off to get your girly friends from this site - but just noticed both posters supporting you have post counts of exactly "1"

Are you actually joining under different names to back yourself up or something? Because if so that is seriously SAD.

And creepy.


B.
 
I must be bored at work because I've managed to read this whole thing and I think it would have been a waste of time if I didn't chime in with my two pennies. Biggy, you seem to know what you're talking about but you're arguing with an obvious professional who knows a ton more then you. Iâ??????m with her on the scale. Itâ??????s a vital tool to keep you honest and give you a day-to-day measure of your progress. Sure, some days youâ??????ll put on some water weight and some days youâ??????ll be lighter but over the long haul itâ??????s going to track your progressâ???¦especially for women.

I myself was an overweight kid and weigh the same right now as I did in the 6th grade. The only difference is Iâ??????m a foot taller. Iâ??????m now down to single digit fat percentages and I did this by exactly what sheâ??????s talking about. I weight myself every day and write it down and it gives me a great idea of what I'm doing right/wrong in my programs. She knows her stuff and you could learn a lot from her.
 
On the whole scale arguement -

Weighing yourself everyday is not healthy behavior IMO. Significant changes in body composition do not happen daily. Notable changes occur in longer time periods. I agree, checking your weight on the scale in a scheduled manner is a good method to make sure you are on track with progress. Along with what I previously stated, included with the weight fluctuations of water retention, weighing yourself everyday serves more negative than positive (generally). It can be disillusioning to watch stare at those numbers everyday. I think it is a fair comparison to chronic self imaging and the progression of body dysmorphia. Staring at your body critically everyday can significantly effect the way you "really" look to yourself.

I didn't read through the entirety of everyone's arguements so I may be reiterating some opinions.
 
I must be bored at work because I've managed to read this whole thing and I think it would have been a waste of time if I didn't chime in with my two pennies. Biggy, you seem to know what you're talking about but you're arguing with an obvious professional who knows a ton more then you. Iâ??????m with her on the scale. Itâ??????s a vital tool to keep you honest and give you a day-to-day measure of your progress. Sure, some days youâ??????ll put on some water weight and some days youâ??????ll be lighter but over the long haul itâ??????s going to track your progressâ???¦especially for women.

I myself was an overweight kid and weigh the same right now as I did in the 6th grade. The only difference is Iâ??????m a foot taller. Iâ??????m now down to single digit fat percentages and I did this by exactly what sheâ??????s talking about. I weight myself every day and write it down and it gives me a great idea of what I'm doing right/wrong in my programs. She knows her stuff and you could learn a lot from her.

Gixxer, that's great!

I've met more than a few people who have won this battle - all of us have used the scale as a tool for success.

So wonderful that you were able to get your weight under your own control while you were young.
 
On the whole scale arguement -

Weighing yourself everyday is not healthy behavior IMO. Significant changes in body composition do not happen daily. Notable changes occur in longer time periods. I agree, checking your weight on the scale in a scheduled manner is a good method to make sure you are on track with progress. Along with what I previously stated, included with the weight fluctuations of water retention, weighing yourself everyday serves more negative than positive (generally). It can be disillusioning to watch stare at those numbers everyday. I think it is a fair comparison to chronic self imaging and the progression of body dysmorphia. Staring at your body critically everyday can significantly effect the way you "really" look to yourself.

I didn't read through the entirety of everyone's arguements so I may be reiterating some opinions.

Have you ever been overweight? I don't mean a few pounds - I mean medically obese, and suffering the health effects that come from it?
 
I try not to go on about my own software here; I consider the sig link is plenty enough but sometimes I just have to say something. I am FULLY aware that tracking over time is vital, that is a major point of what Biggly does, graphing your gross weight, lean body mass and physicial measurements, along with skinfolds, calorie intake, carbs, protein etc etc.

Along with workouts etc.

So yes, spotting trends and knowing in advance you're going to swell a bit at a certain time is helpful - but that still doesn't answer the skinfold thing. Can someone actually confirm that a woman's skinfold increases during this water bloat or not?

If so I'd like to know that. If not then my point stands, scales alone just tell you your gross weight, which is on its own is just a number. Like an aircraft cockpit panel that tells you your height but gives no indication which direction you're headed.

I can go zero carbs for 3 days and drop 5lbs - but it's mostly water weight. But it's working right, lost 5lbs!? No, the calipers say "nee nee, no change".

But eat too many carbs and I gain fat - both the scales AND the calipers say "Oi! Cut the carbs!"

No-one's saying don't use scales, just use other methods as well. Scales only tell you your weight. Nothing else.

I drink a large latte I just gained a pound. I take a dump I just lost a pound. And? Tell that to skinfold calipers. You get gas you belly measurement goes up. Tell that to the calipers? Break wind your belly measurement goes down. And the calipers?

Weight is a useful measure but relying on weight alone can be misleading. Ignoring cardio, even though I'm the first to say it should also not be done by itself, is plain silly. Sure, some people can get slim without cardio, many different things can work if done intensely enough or if you're not used to them but thousands upon thousands of people out there have stripped the fat off their bodies - with cardio.

Yes, it can make you hungry. Of course it does, because you're burning calories.

Relying purely on weight lifting is as daft as relying purely on cardio, it takes both to build a great body. To rely purely on scales to track your progress is also too simplistic.

The ridiculous thing is on the whole we agree with each other, women should do more weights, less cardio and monitor what works best for them over a period of time. Yes.

But to throw away such powerful tools as calipers and cardio? No.

To ignore the fact that small muscle gains can make up the weight difference to the point that the scales might not move? That's so well-known it's a cliche.

This thread is boring me now as it seems more a matter of scoring points than actually helping the OP.




B.
 
B, you're missing the point because I'll bet you've never been obese. We're not talking about a pound here or a pound there. We're talking 20 lbs here and 20 lbs there. We are talking MAJOR weight loss. And there are several tools to measure this....and a really good one for obese people is the scale. Watch the Biggest loser. These are truly obese people and the one and only tool the use to measure their success is the scale. And has it worked? It's probably one of the most successful programs out there. Do they do cardio? Yes of course, but I'll bet you the majority of their weight loss and figure changes comes from their strength training. I myself think of cardio simply as a health improver, not a fat burner.

B, you've got some great info and the only reason I'm arguing with you is because I disagree with you fully when you say the scale is useless. It's the one thing all people have and one of the best tools to monitor your WEIGHT LOSS.
 
Have you ever been overweight? I don't mean a few pounds - I mean medically obese, and suffering the health effects that come from it?

Nope.

Technically, I have. In actuality, no.
 
You know, I was just guessing at the "let's get my sistas to gang up on him" and presumed you'd gone running off to get your girly friends from this site - but just noticed both posters supporting you have post counts of exactly "1"

Are you actually joining under different names to back yourself up or something? Because if so that is seriously SAD.

And creepy.


B.


Dane has a join date of May 2006.
 
Yeah and the spam for a porn site this week had the same join date, Vbulletin isn't too great on that stuff. Who joins a site and doesn't post anything for 2 years?

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Regardless, volume or shouting doesn't alter the facts nor answer the only question this thread has left for me - does water bloating affect skinfold measurements?

Yes or no?

If no-one knows then fine but I've no desire to keep arguing when I've made my points known. If someone wants to follow the advice of ignoring cardio and only using bathroom scales for guidance, fine. I've said my bit, they can get on with it.


B.
 
Blackwell Synergy - Scand J Med Sci Sports, Volume 1 Issue 3 Page 147-150, September 1991 (Article Abstract)

Fluctuations in regulatory hormones, body temperature and other physiological mechanisms during the menstrual cycle cause individual symptoms, including a perceived weight gain. This study determined the effects of a normal menstrual cycle on body weight, percentage body fat (% fat by hydrostatic weighing), respiratory measures of vital capacity and residual volume by spirometry, and the sum of 7 skinfolds (triceps, subscapula, axilla, chest, suprailium, abdomen and thigh). Twenty regularly menstruating (23- to 35-d cycles) subjects (aged 20–30 years) volunteered for this study. Measures were duplicated on days 1, 7, 14, 21 and 28 after the onset of menstrual flow. Repeated-measures analysis of variance indicated no significant differences for any measured parameter between the 5 assigned days. Therefore, body composition in this age group was not affected by normal menstruation.

Never mind.



B.
 
Dane has a join date of May 2006.
Thank you for noticing--I was just getting ready to point that out.

Yeah and the spam for a porn site this week had the same join date, Vbulletin isn't too great on that stuff. Who joins a site and doesn't post anything for 2 years?
:rolleyes: Lots of people--we're called "Lurkers". I am a member of many fitness boards where I just read or occasionally lurk, and an active member of a handful where I spend most of my posting dollars. I joined this particular board long ago, but the atmosphere hadn't been one I felt much like contributing to. Until now.

I've e-known Built for almost 4 years, and her information has always been quality stuff, practical and science based. She's helped me learn to apply the knowledge to myself--without the aid of a paid trainer I've dropped 70# of weight in the past year, and built a strong muscle base.

She knows her stuff, and when I found out that Prince had recruited her from another board to mod this one, I decided to follow her over here and give this place another chance.

Built definitely doesn't need ANY help in "defending" herself--she has nothing to defend! But some of the stuff you were spouting, Biggly....... well you got me, you pulled me out of LurkDom.

:hiya:

But to throw away such powerful tools as calipers and cardio? No.

To ignore the fact that small muscle gains can make up the weight difference to the point that the scales might not move? That's so well-known it's a cliche.
No one said to throw away calipers or cardio. The whole cardio argument is retarded--Built was trying to make a point that people trying to cut should focus on DIET to lose weight, LIFTING to ensure that more of that weight lost will be fat and not muscle, and THEN CARDIO as an afterthought, as a little extra calorie burn.

The thing about calipers is that a single-site measurement isn't as accurate for women, because of our fat distribution, not to mention you need to have someone who's really good at using them to take your measurements consistently. I don't have that at home--the scale is a much better indicator for me. As for calipers--really, all I need to know is to look in the mirror--Fat?/NotFat? If the scale is going down, I'm lifting heavy, and my protein rquirements are being met, then that's all I need to know.
Regardless, volume or shouting doesn't alter the facts nor answer the only question this thread has left for me - does water bloating affect skinfold measurements?

Yes or no?
I believe it does--but I'm no expert and don't have any studies on hand to back me up at the moment. When I visit Lyle's board, I'll see if he has any research I can toss your way. Something to consider--if water doesn't affect skinfold measurements, then why do BB'ers try to avoid coming in "smooth"? Do you know what that means?
 
Yes, it means avoiding carbs/creatine due to the water retention but that's below the skin and not usually picked up by calipers.

If I'm wrong on that or you get more information please do tell.

The thing about calipers is that a single-site measurement isn't as accurate for women, because of our fat distribution, not to mention you need to have someone who's really good at using them to take your measurements consistently.

Even scales have to be used consistently, such as first thing in the morning. Single-point measuring, usually over the hip, is remarkably accurate for both sexes but why restrict yourself to single point? Some methods use 7 points, including over the shoulder blade which is tricky by yourself but there are other multi-point methods that can be done alone. If anything doing it yourself can be more consistent, as you tend to do the same thing every time. Getting someone else to do it may be more accurate technically but the whole point is simply to monitor trends and changes over time. That doesn't require much precision.

Nor do you really need a helping hand with a tape measure.

As for the mirror, yes, valuable things, especially for spinach in your teeth. However for a monitoring system they suck, badly. How you look will depend very much on how you feel at the time. If you just skipped a workout and feel lethargic I guarantee you that you'll look like crap in the mirror. If you know you've been working out hard lately and you just broke your bench record, you'll look so good it's freaky.

That's why, especially in this age of cheap digital photography, I urge peope to take pics. Comparing one pic to another taken in the same manner is proof positive, regardless of your mood at the time. A snappy boss and a long commute can put 10lbs on - in the mirror but not the camera. Cameras don't care what mood you're in, they just record what's there.

Likewise scales don't care about your bench record, your stronger bones, better endurance, slimmer waist and firmer arms, they just record gross weight.

OK, let me give an example. Recently I did the anabolic burst, it's where you basically starve yourself silly for a couple of weeks then stuff yourself stupid for a couple of weeks. The ratio between muscle lost and gained compared to fat lost and gained, mostly due to the crazy hormone swings you create, means in theory you gain muscle and lose fat, as an overall balance at the end. That's the plan.

Monitoring closely, with scales, calipers and tape. I was able to easily spot the point when it was no longer just fat weight coming off, at which point I piled on the food and was able to again spot when it was not just lean tissue being added. The system worked for me, not 14 days by 14 days, more like 9 days by 10 for me personally. Had I relied on nothing but scales when do I quit cutting? I was losing weight all the time, how far should I have gone?

BECAUSE I was using calipers and a tape as well I could spot the switchover, when my body went beyond using fat reserves - a scale could not tell me that.

Same with bulking.

Sure, if you're a fat blimp and just want to shed pounds, a scale will work. No need for anything fancy when you're that fat, just cut down on calories and you can't help but lose weight. So if we're just talking slimming, fine, diet and scales.

If you're talking balancing fat loss with muscle growth, that takes a little more care and balancing, but again not so much at high fat levels. The body is not good at using stored fat for muscle growth but you don't need to keep the calories so high either.

OK let's compromise - if you're a fat blimp and want to shed weight, diet and scales will do. If you're already fairly lean and wish to get ripped and muscular, scales and diet, even with working out, is too blunt a method. You might still get there but can easily head in the wrong direction or just quit making gains. Certainly you'll have to choose between bulking or cutting, I don't see how you could walk the tight-rope of holding onto gains while shedding fat if your only guide is a bathroom scale.

For a lot of people just cutting calories and getting slim is all they desire - or need.

Throw in some weight training and its even better, sure.

But if that's all you've got in your entire arsenal of tricks and techniques, it aint gonna get you much beyond 'slim'. If you're lucky and that's all your genetics required. We don't hear so much from those that failed.

I've far too many people who've struggled with weight, mostly guys it's true, that have spent a fortune on cutting supplements, worked out 5 or 6 days a week. "How much cardio do you do?" "Er.."

On the treadmill or elliptical a couple of times a week and hey, a 6 pack!

Who'd have thunk?


If anything women do too much cardio and should do more weights, true. Men are the opposite, they do more weights and little cardio. Both sexes benefit from doing a bit of the other.

But no, I don't accept the idea that 'cardio doesn't work' (or doesn't burn calories!). It DOES work, IF you mix it up a bit and don't do the same damn thing all the time. However the exact same thing applies to weightlifting, do the same thing all the time and that stops working too.



B.
 
First, let me just say that if anyone does not NEED backup, it's Built. She's quite capable of decimating you all on her own. Personally, I find it hard to watch her credibility called into question by someone who quite clearly does not understand or refuses to understand what she is telling them.

As for the pound of fat vs. pound of muscle comment...you left yourself WIDE open for that one with these TWO statements.

Don't forget muscle is a lot heavier than fat...

Sniffing around (among the hundreds of articles warning about relying on scales...) I couldn't find a clear definition of the weight of fat.

Both of which demonstrate a lack of understanding of the relationship: density = mass/volume. That said,

Like I said, sheer volume doesn't make for an argument. Let's review the basics:

I already covered the fact that a difference of 1.06 compared to 0.9 is actually a large difference when it comes to the volumes required to change your physique in terms of shape.

I think you are referring to this post?

At this point it looks like there's not much difference but we have to remember we're talking volume. That makes a big difference, for a noticable increase in size makes for a huge difference in volume.

Consider an ellipsoid, if you measure a little muscle for example 10cm long, 5cm high, 5cm across, that's a volume of about 130ccm. Double the length, height and width, just double, and the volume goes up to over 1000.

So in terms of pure cubic inches or centimeters or whatever, probably not 6x, however in terms of changes to body shape there is a massive difference. If one substance weighed just 5% more than the other there would be a 25% difference in weight for that shape change. If 14% as your souce suggests, then an even bigger difference.

The human body is not a perfect sphere or cube and the main thing we're looking at is shape and to a lesser degree, size. So while I'll agree 6x is overkill in terms of math, I'd say the difference to your physique is something like 3x.

Again, your lack of understanding of the relationship between volume, mass, and density is astounding.

Here, let me elucidate it for you with some basic math.

The real question, as you put it, is the difference in volume. How much volume does a lb of fat take up verses how much volume does a lb of muscle take up? I assure you that the shape of this volume does not matter in the least.

Well, let's find out! 1 lbs = .45 kg (approximately). This will make our conversions easier, but we'll convert back at the end for all the non-metric people out there.

The density of fat is .9 g/ml = .9g/cm^3 = .0009 kg/cm^3.
The density of muscle is 1.06 g/ml = 1.06g/cm^3 = .00106 kg/cm^3.

How much space (that's volume folks) does a one lb of fat take up? How much space does one lb of muscle make up?

Well, since density = mass/volume, volume = mass/density, you with me?
So, for fat...
.45kg/(.0009kg/cm^3) = 505 cm^3
And for muscle...
.45kg/(.00106kg/cm^3) = 429 cm^3
Converting back into American units by dividing by (2.53 cm)^3 (since 2.53 cm = 1 inch), we have that 1 pound of fat takes up 30.8 in^3 and that 1 pound of muscle takes up 26.2 in^3.
So, in terms of cubes....
30.8 in^3 = a cube that is 3.13 inches per side.
26.2 in^3 = a cube that is 2.96 inches per side.
In terms of spheres....(volume of a sphere is 4/3*pi*r^3, just in case you forgot)..
1 lb of fat = 30.8 in^3 = sphere of radius r = 1.94 inches
1lb of muscle = 26.2 in^3 = sphere of radius r = 1.84 inches

:nerd:
 
Of course the shape doesn't make a difference to the math; I just used a shape rather than a cube, because people aren't cube-shaped.

I also used the most appropriate shape, the closest to a muscle. I see you've used a cube and sphere, both of which hide the volume shift more than an actual limb or muscle shape. Whatever, I've already conceded the point regarding volume, though muscle certainly is heavier and has less volume as a result. That seems to be agreed, though the extent seems less than the vast majority of peeps seem to think. OK already, but about the idea that cardio doesn't burn calories and skinfolds versus scales alone?

For someone who doesn't need backup she seems to be getting some from the other forum.



B.
 
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I am getting some nice backup <waves to her peeps and smiles>.

Nice to have you here. :)
 
I think that you are just awesome, built!

I have learned more by reading your blog & by reading your posts here than you may ever realize!

thank you so much for all your hard work & dedication to offer these suggestions to all of us, much appreciated!

this post has also educated me so! I'm glad that this question was asked!
 
bruisin - thank you so much for reading my blog! I'm delighted to have helped you. :)
 
pay no heed to biggly, bruisin. he's got a couple of disorders.
penis envy for one. and built doesn't even have one.
 
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I promise to overlook his thinly veiled attempts against built. Do you think it's not penis envy as much as it may be over success envy? :roflmao:

I don't care who the person is/isn't if they take the time to put so much effort into helping others, a thank you is the least we could say to them.
 
I promise to overlook his thinly veiled attempts against built. Do you think it's not penis envy as much as it may be over success envy? :roflmao:

heh, that's what i was alluding to ;)

I don't care who the person is/isn't if they take the time to put so much effort into helping others, a thank you is the least we could say to them.

yeppers, built has helped me out a lot too! i'm using her 'baby got back' split routine and what i've learned from 'got built' has helped me improve my diet greatly.
 
Aw shucks. Thanks kids. :)

There are a LOT of ways to diet.

Mine's comfortable, uncomplicated, and requires very little cardio. Lazy glutton that I am, this appeals to me. ;)

Bodybuilders have been getting jacked and shredded for a long time on low-fat, 6-meal-a-day plans with lots of cardio. It works.

I offer an alternative that also works.

So great to have choices!
 
for weight loss only exercise are not work, you have make a diet plan with the proper exercise, means she has to take care about the calories ,how much caolores she take , and how much is required for her, these are some tips she can follow these


focus on fitness not fatness
Walk more each day
Never miss breakfast & donâ??????t eat after 8pm
use baked potato rather than chips & apple rather than apple juice
Drink plenty of ice cold water
avoid suger
 
for weight loss only exercise are not work, you have make a diet plan with the proper exercise, means she has to take care about the calories ,how much caolores she take , and how much is required for her, these are some tips she can follow these


focus on fitness not fatness
Walk more each day
Never miss breakfast & donâ??????t eat after 8pm
use baked potato rather than chips & apple rather than apple juice
Drink plenty of ice cold water
avoid suger

I would have to disagree. I focussed on fitness for years. I ended up an obese jogger.

Walking is okay, but not enough on it's own.

I ALWAYS put off breakfast and I ALWAYS eat at bedtime. I wear a size two. Bottom line: you have 24 hours, and a calorie budget. Spend it any time you like - but when it's gone, it's gone. There's nothing magical about the calories you eat after 8 PM.

Ice water is a little hard on the stomach, no?

Any food can fit into a plan if you track your calories. Including chips, juice and sugar. On a deficit, these will tend to make you hungry though - so if satiety is important, for most, these foods won't be major players.
 
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