Wife Just Left Me....

[GMO]

....found out I was using steroids. Packed up her shit and took my daughters with her. I am pissed, but also saddened by these recent events


FUCK FUCK FUCK!!!!!!!!

 

[gixxermaniak]

Take it easy brother focus on the kids figure them out and Fuck her

*getting swole*

 

[~RaZr~]

Holy shit man! Are you serious? I thought she knew?

Hope everything works out for you boss. Focus on the family.

 

[D-Lats]

WTF??? Thats crazy bro obviously she doesnt know whats up!

 

[258884]

G--Hoping it works out for you and your family.

Be patient in the upcoming days.....be patient.

 

[deadlifter405]

Sorry to hear that! Hope things work out well for you.

 

[dgp]

Sorry to hear this. My wife left me about 3 year back. I thought it was the end of my life, but it was only the beginning. It was the best thing that ever happened. The bitch fucked up and I got my daughter. Make sure she can’t prove gear use!!! If she files and the two of you go to court she can say you use, but it don’t mean dick. If she can’t prove it. I guess, what I am saying is, you never know what the future will bring you. Keep your head up.

 

[Digitalash]

Damn man that's crazy, give her some time though and see if she's willing to talk about it with you at least. Hopefully she just doesn't know how to deal with the situation and if you explain it to her a bit she'll forgive you. Either way bro hope everything works out for you

 

[kboy]

Quit pining for a while, give you body a break, get your family back which is the most important and then figure out how to be more discreet with your AAS. family first. God bless you Brother and be strong.

 

[bigbenj]

That's sad news.
You were still the same guy, regardless, so I think it was a knee jerk reaction on her part.

I hope it all works out.

 

[KUVinny]

Wow... Very sorry to hear this! I agree with Digi...

Give her time to cool down. She is going to give you a chance to explain things. Don't be alarmed if she speaks to others and reveals things. Remember that for her this is at least partly about you keeping a big secret from her. Trust issues, and the "what else has he been keeping secret from me" type things. Don't allow yourself to become frustrated when trying to explain your side of it. Keep to being calm, humble, empathetic, and steadfast in your resolve to get past this together.

Best wishes to you both!

 

[Pittsburgh63]

Damn brother... I hope it all works itself out. Keep your head up.

 

[Anabolic5150]

GMO,

I am so sorry to hear this, I know how much your girls mean to you. Focus on them as stated above, do what you need to do. Everyone here has your back Brother, I'm here if you need to vent or just have someone to talk to.

Let me know if you need anything.

 

[MrSaturatedFat]

I literally said "what the fuck!?" when I read this on the front page.

If your mind wasn't already fucked from the diet your currently on, now this..

I guess this is where you prove to yourself how much strong will you really have. Your a good guy GMO, you've helped me and numerous other members too. I dont have any doubts you'll get through this in a positive way. And remember, you have tons of guys here who got your back, including me. Stay strong my friend.

 

[Evil Eagle]

Sorry to hear that GMO, hopefully she'll come around and realize she's freaking over nothing.

 

[GMO]

DAMN! Thanks for all the words of encouragement. Things have been shitty between the wife and I for many weeks, so honestly at this point, I could give two shits about her. It's my kids that I worry about the most. Especially my 12 year-old, she is daddy's little girl and idolizes me.

 

[ebn2002]

Be smart. She will use everything against you. I would call ADAM or FRED or some other group for guys in a divorce and get advice. good luck.

 

[independent]

GMO, I am very sad to hear this which I dont wish on anyone. What is the whole story though? Did steroids cause a problem in your marriage in the past? Women are very strange when it comes to steroid usage, Ive been there.


Edit, just saw your post above mine.

 

[patricio]

Sorry to hear this. I hope You can work things out with her. It's always better for the kids to have their parents together, especially at such a sensitive age

 

[Vibrant]

Damn bro, that sucks.

 

[ManInBlack]

Wow, pretty shocking post bro. I know your situation has got to be tough man damn.

You seem like you have got your shit together though so I really dont know what advice I can give you other than try and stay calm and collected throughout this ordeal/process.

Things will definitely be ok at some point, may take some time, good luck man.

 

[OfficerFarva]

Definitely get some legal advice asap. The courts are geared towards woman so you'll have to fight hard to win them over if it comes down to a child custody case.

 

[ManInBlack]

Definitely get some legal advice asap. The courts are geared towards woman so you'll have to fight hard to win them over if it comes down to a child custody case.

This ^^^^

I really hope that you can work it all out though man and not have to take it this far.

 

[bigrene]

Be smart. She will use everything against you. I would call ADAM or FRED or some other group for guys in a divorce and get advice. good luck.

This^^^^^^ plus ignorant and vindictive I suspect, good luck.

 

[Ezskanken]

GMO,
Sorry to hear brother. Your passion and love for your kids will carry you through this and bring you out on top. Take care, and we are all here for support buddy. Take it ez...

I know there is paper work you can get from the courthouse. It's kind of long, but if you fill it out and turn it in, if she tries to leave the state with your kids it would be considered child abduction even if she is your wife. Pretty extreme, but just incase...

 

[REDDOG309]

Women are geared towards Knee jerk reactions. If there are not other underlying things going on in your marriage then she will probelby cool down and this can be discussed and worked out. But I hope for the best for you and the family. Just remember keep your cool. No "roid rage" or she will definitly use that against you. Good Luck!!

 

[crazyotter]

I'm sorry to hear that bro. Hope everything works out.

 

[ANIMALHAUS]

I'm so sorry GMO!

 

[Vibrant]

Dont know your situation but could it be that your wife is just upset that you didn't tell her before this?

 

[GH Consigliere]

Dam bro I feel you am sorry do for young ones they need their dad !!