Wife Just Left Me....

[GMO]

No, she is just totally against drugs of any kind. Especially illegal ones...she doesn't want to be in a house where their are illegal drugs. I'm pretty much done with her anyway. Time to find a gal that will support my juice.

 

[Roaddkingg]

Man this is terrible news. I have been through a divorce and know how it can hurt.
You have gotten a lot of good comments from people who obviously care about you.
Just be cool and by all means if you havent already gotten rid of things around the house do it now.
She obviously will tell everyone and maybe even LE.
Woman tend to blame every little argument on usage and then they get their following of believers to go along with it and flame the fire.
My heart goes out to ya bro.

 

[swollen]

wow bro., I honestly don't know what to say... I'm sorry this happen to you. Me and wife separated about 2 yrs. ago, but I saw it comin', I kinda know what ur goin' thru & i can say that if both are really in love, u shouldn't have much to worry about- y'all will be able to work thru it in y'all's own way.

Hate to hear when anyone goes through this...sorry..

 

[bigbenj]

Be smart. She will use everything against you. I would call ADAM or FRED or some other group for guys in a divorce and get advice. good luck.

My friend called one of those "attorney for men" deals, I think it was ADAM. They wanted a TON of money up front, just for consultation.

 

[MULCH63]

No, she is just totally against drugs of any kind. Especially illegal ones...she doesn't want to be in a house where their are illegal drugs. I'm pretty much done with her anyway. Time to find a gal that will support my juice.

How many years married? Do you really feel this way about the wife. I mean you married her. Sure it isn't worth restoration?

 

[bundle]

that sucks, sorry bro, if u are done w/her get everything outof the house while any legals , cause if she drops a dime , I mean Clean up your house of everything, even scraps of paper w/ anything that could b used against u

 

[bigbenj]

hide your computer. clear everything out.

Sometime marriages fall apart. People grow apart over time.

 

[ZECH]

Sorry to hear about this brother. Keep your head up and protect yourself first. Maybe she will come around, I have been through two splits in marriage. Woman are funny creatures. Give her some time and see what happens. Good luck!

 

[fitter420]

that sucks, sorry bro, if u are done w/her get everything outof the house while any legals , cause if she drops a dime , I mean Clean up your house of everything, even scraps of paper w/ anything that could b used against u

Agreed....Even if they say they wont,their friends and lawyer will turn them into a go for the throat bitch.Especially custody shit.I know everyones case is diff. but I would think you should be ready.
Wow,to break up a family over juice?Thats fucked. I wish you the best.

 

[fireazm]

sorry bro

 

[malfeasance]

No, she is just totally against drugs of any kind. Especially illegal ones...she doesn't want to be in a house where their are illegal drugs. I'm pretty much done with her anyway. Time to find a gal that will support my juice.

You need to focus on protecting yourself legally. This is no different, so far as the law is concerned, than if she found a suitcase full of cocaine in the closet. She WILL use this against you however she can to gain an advantage. Please protect yourself in every way you can.

 

[REDDOG309]

Just out of curiousty, was it your push to 6% bf that got her into slueth mode, or did you leave something out to be found?

 

[Dath]

Sorry to hear this GMO, the kids are the ones that feel the long term effects the most.
In a similar situation myself, I suggest airing on the side of caution and protecting yourself quietly by contacting a lawyer and understanding your rights especially with regards to the kids, that'll phuck you up most of all should "games" begin to get played.
Your both pissed off right now, BUT there's obviously something that kept you together this long, and depending on the situation worth fighting for at least once.
Marriage is a lot of work and IMO not 50/50 but 100/100 in regards to effort put in in both halves.
May everything workout as its meant to bro.

 

[FordFan]

Sorry man. Kids make decisions very hard. First thing though, get ALL the juice away from the house!

If it gets ugly, she will use it against you. Don't forget your computer and any labs, peptides, syringes, etc.

 

[IronAddict]

Women!?

Sorry to hear that, GMO. Hard to fathom her deciding to call it quits over juice. Yes, it's illegal but its not heroin or coke!

Maybe it would be better if you got hooked on the legal shit, more people od and die from those every year than heroin, coke combined.

Speaking of which, those legal drugs and alc just claimed another victim!

 

[schroedes]

good luck with that one

 

[KILLEROFSAINTS]

....found out I was using steroids. Packed up her shit and took my daughters with her. I am pissed, but also saddened by these recent events


FUCK FUCK FUCK!!!!!!!!

really sucks that she doesnt understand


i would try to exlain the ins and outs

but the fact is...they are illigal...and she is your partner

she should get the last say

 

[bigbenj]

Things like this make me realize it was a much better choice to tell my wife right off the bat. Honesty is the best policy.

I know you said you're done with her, but at the least, I hope it doesn't get too messy, and she doesn't hold the kids against you. Little ones need their father in their lives as much as they need their mother. Gives them more structure and guidance.

 

[JerseyDevil]

really sucks that she doesnt understand


i would try to exlain the ins and outs

but the fact is...they are illigal...and she is your partner

she should get the last say

^^^^^ This

I made this same mistake many years ago. Didn't get divorced over it, but it created a lot of problems. All of you guys need to involve your wives or significant others in your decision to use.

GMO. You love your daughters. Are you really willing to chance losing them over juice? I think you should lay low for awhile and then try to reason with your wife. You have the rest of your life to juice, but right now you need to get your house in order so to speak.

 

[GMO]

Things like this make me realize it was a much better choice to tell my wife right off the bat. Honesty is the best policy.

I know you said you're done with her, but at the least, I hope it doesn't get too messy, and she doesn't hold the kids against you. Little ones need their father in their lives as much as they need their mother. Gives them more structure and guidance.

She seems to be handling things VERY civilly. She said that she is not necessarily going to divorce me, she just needs some time apart.

 

[Little Wing]

if the police come in a home and arrest the husband for illegal drugs guess what the wife ALWAYS gets arrested too because right or wrong they assume the wife is in on it even if she knows nothing about it. the cops come in arrest you and strangers take temporary possession of your kids during which time you have no control over what happens to them. what's a mother going to do?

 

[~RaZr~]

She seems to be handling things VERY civilly. She said that she is not necessarily going to divorce me, she just needs some time apart.

Well that's a good thing. Just give her some time and respect her wishes.

 

[bigbenj]

She seems to be handling things VERY civilly. She said that she is not necessarily going to divorce me, she just needs some time apart.

Ahhhhh, very good to hear. Just give her a little space, maybe send some flowers to her with an apology. Maybe not an apology for using, but more for not telling her.

 

[Vibrant]

I hope that your wife is a reasonable woman and doesn't pass her anger towards you onto your kids. Whatever your problems are, it's not the kids fault. I bet your kids love you very much and they shouldn't have to suffer, I hope she understand that.

 

[Anabolic5150]

She seems to be handling things VERY civilly. She said that she is not necessarily going to divorce me, she just needs some time apart.

Give her that time, you need it too.

I know everyone here has an opinion on what you should do, what your wife should do. And I respect all that want to help, but we all need to remember that you and her are the ones suffering through this. Support is great, but let's all make sure we keep that support positive for both parties involved.

GMO, we all love ya Bro, we want the best for you and your wife. Just know that.

 

[Pittsburgh63]

^^^ Well said Anabolic

 

[Little Wing]

maybe you just need to ask her to be specific about why she reacted so strongly, then go from there. i'm wondering if she was more scared than angry. scared for your health or trouble with the law... then do your best to reassure her if it's fear or wait it out if it's anger. not thinking your daughters need to see you toss their mom aside for your juice. you'd stop being the hero real fast. i'm sorry if that sounds mean but that's true.

 

[tommygunz]

Hope for the best, plan for the worst, I repeat plan for the worst. I've been down this road. You might think you know the person you're married to, you have no idea about the one your going to battle with.

 

[redz]

This is why I advocate never hiding it. These are things that need to be discussed. Lets not forget you broke her trust it's more than just using steroids.

 

[brazey]

Well said Anabolic. Hope everything works out.