Have you ever rejected a beautiful woman ?

[Fit Freak]

J'Bo...not kidding...unfortunatley...maybe I'll have to listen to you and check out this "Grand Beach" someday soon

At least I know my problem though...too freakin' shy until I know someone...and then the same ol same ol thing happens EVERYTIME....I BECOME the FRIEND Please...I have plenty of female friends...FF wants more.......

 

[gr81]

tisk tisk.. the friend zone. thats no good bro, but don't worry, Dr GR has teh solution for ya. . you need to get in touch with your inner asshole and not be so friendly to them. Be blunt right from the beginning and let it be known what you want right away. Be in control b/c once you get that friend thang going, you will rarely ever escape from it. Girls don't want friends that are assholes, they want guys who will sit there and actually listen to what they have to say!! thats mistake number one. Act like you don't and won't hear a word they say until you have seen them naked. ya dig? No reason to be shy, if one chick isn't feelin you, then the next will... thats the attitude. now go get 'em! ha \ha

 

[gr81]

Originally posted by J'Bo
perhaps your hanging around in the wrong places and need to come taste the famous Grand Beach this summer. I can introduce you to some Beautifully brained hot ass women

well gawd damm J, hook it up then .we are relatively close right?! ha ha

 

[Fit Freak]

Shit Gr...sometimes I wish I could thing like that...but being a nice guy isn't so bad...sometimes ... all the time...now I see your point...lol

 

[gr81]

yeah bro, just remember women don't let nice guys crack their ass hard and pull their hair on the first date, in fact they don't LET anyone do that. you gotta be aggressive and take that shit. be nice to your friends, be ruthless to these hoes man!! ha ha
peace

 

[Big Smoothy]

Originally posted by Vieope
Sometimes this situation happens with me. Doesn´t matter how beautiful she is, if there is something that is bothering me, I really don´t do it.
No sex, no relationship.
Something like this ever happened to you ?

I reject beautiful women about every other day.

 

[J'Bo]

this is going to sound really bad coming from a women...but i have to somewhat agree with GR81....women like sweetness but also assholes...well some do....not a pure ass hole but not a softy either

 

[Vieope]

Originally posted by J'Bo
women like sweetness but also assholes...well some do....not a pure ass hole but not a softy either

You know that you complicated the whole thing again..
Oh, well.. you are a woman.

 

[LAM]

Originally posted by Vieope
Sometimes this situation happens with me. Doesn´t matter how beautiful she is, if there is something that is bothering me, I really don´t do it.
No sex, no relationship.
Something like this ever happened to you ?

from the ages of 16-32 I was a total slut. All of the girls that I dated wanted a relationship but I just wanted sex.

Now I'm looking for a relationship and all they want is sex ! I can't win...I turn down a LOT of sex these days, stupid conscience...

 

[gr81]

Originally posted by J'Bo
this is going to sound really bad coming from a women...but i have to somewhat agree with GR81....women like sweetness but also assholes...well some do....not a pure ass hole but not a softy either

exactly! I really do know what I am talkin about. ha ha, thanks J. by the way how U been doin? don't be a stranger girl, hit me up sometime

 

[RoCk79]

Question how long do you date the girl before you become a "nice" guy instead of an asshole?

 

[gr81]

well first off, these rules are not ones to follow when you want a relationship, they are rules to follow when you are strickly trying to get laid,. by the way let me clarify that when I say asshole, I mean A-hole by not calling them back, not listening to them, not spending money on them, those types of things. You dont' want to be such and prick that you are warding away females, ya dig? You still want to be charming and funny. You want them to feel like they can't have you, but you have to make them want you. Not being able to have you will make them want you. YOu never want them to think that they are the only one you are fuckin either. They have to feel as if there is competition. Once we have sex with them, then maybe we decide that we like them and want to get to know them, then sometimes we open up. That is just kindof a decision you make together once you know her better and really like her. You never become the "nice guy" though persay. you still gotta keep it real and be a man. Holla if ya hear me!

 

[Vieope]

I can say that you are right.
What are the rules for starting a relationship ? IMO, they are the same. That sounds so bad.

 

[maniclion]

I'm sorry, but I could never be an ass to my girl. She is older though and won't take shit from anyone. She's my down ass even though I'm nice to her. What's the explanation for that?

 

[Vieope]

Originally posted by maniclion
I'm sorry, but I could never be an ass to my girl. She is older though and won't take shit from anyone. She's my down ass even though I'm nice to her. What's the explanation for that?

Maybe you are a A** and you are not aware of it? J/K
I guess that you are lucky.

 

[OceanDude]

I turned down a good looking girl.

Was minding my own business sitting at the bar where I was having bachelor fare for dinner (my single days). This black woman sits next to me who is very articulate, highly educated, amazingly attractive and dressed more classy than a debutante and has two times the social skills. I never before dated a black woman before and never even thought of it so I was kind of stunned in a pleasant sort of way (not a racist just grew up in an area where there were 98% whites). But I was very impressed with how articulate she was and she had this Mary Tyler Moore kind of look. We struck up an intriguing conversation about all manner of interesting subjects (got to respect a woman who can talk over a range of topics including Quantum Physics, Machiavelli, and Socrates and Mozart). To make a long story short SHE asked me to dance and I was walking as if on pixydust to this idea. It started off terrific then she had a personality flip-flop a few minutes into the dance. She started getting more than a lil??? nasty on the dance floor. She started rubbing and grinding and touching then stepping back to stare below the belt to gauge the response. I felt like a trapped bug in a spider web as she smiled widely at her success in getting a reaction and just as suddenly pulled me from the dance floor and said ???let???s go.??? I returned to my chair and got the bill and she excused herself to the ladies room. I paid the tab then snuck out of the place before she could return. I???ll never know for sure what that situation was all about but I guess my instincts were telling me it was some kind of set up or she was just too smooth to be real. The aggression was certainly unexpected and it was pretty strange to experience.

-OD

 

[Vieope]

I would do the same thing.

 

[PreMier]

I wouldnt have... I like agressive women. Total turn on!

 

[Var]

I'm with PreMier on that one!

 

[Spitfire]

OK back to strippers... I saw (hooked up with) a part time stripper never did anything serious, but she was the only girl thats given me another means of pleasure, nothing else.

 

[J'Bo]

Originally posted by RoCk79
Question how long do you date the girl before you become a "nice" guy instead of an asshole?

once you buy her the 2 karots and you know she is yours forever

gr81...read my journal and you will see whats going on babe i will pm you tomorrow

btw agressive women ROCK who knows maybe i wouldnt be with my love if i hadent jumped him