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OceanDude said:John, John, John,
You sound so flustered. I am truly sorry if you are as agitated as you sound. I honestly thought that you would be capable of expressing your thoughts man-to-man in a way that would be less emotional and more logical. But I understand that you probably have more sensitivity in this area since this is such a huge part of your current life style choice and identity. I can accept that but I just hate to see you so aroused. I accept that some are ???the sensitive type???. I am as sensitive in this regard John as you are when the dialog come to core fundamental beliefs but I have learned to discipline my responses and how I respond to my environment in a way that is perhaps less dramatic. But if you prefer drama that is your freedom as an American. I have embedded additional comments within yours ??? ironically that seems kind of intimate to be commingling words like this in public does it not?.
Take care John and Hugs again,
OD
Stallions05 said:im sorry i know im a new member but its pretty obvious that about 95% of the people here just want to talk about sex and have a good time...no1 cares about your satistics and bullshit...
John H. said:Hi Stallion,
Statistics? Bullshit? No one cares? Sounds like you are putting yourself - at least mentally - in prison...
When anyone refuses to learn honestly and completely about ALL things from ALL sources ALL the time - OBJECTIVELY - they PUT themselves in prison - mental prison - and as the old saying goes make your bed and will sleep in it...
You - or anyone else - no matter how hard you try - CAN NEVER change WHAT IS FACT! That THERE IS variety in Sex - as with ALL things in life - IS FACT and is PROVEN DAILY throughout ALL of time!!!
Take Care, John H.
thatguy said:Sounds like something some gay guy made up to make himself feel more accepted. Either that, or my circle of friends here in Texas is exceptionally straight, because I have known very few gay guys, and there are also few straight ones with gay tendencies. Certainly not 50%.
My gosh, John you are something else.John H. said:Hi That,
That is why people should READ the book and SEE for themselves - check out the sources - SEE the sources used to write the book for yourself.
What the book shows IS that nearly 50% of ALL MEN (THAT WERE CAUGHT!!! - that does not also mean those that were NOT CAUGHT) - and you then have to ask yourself if this "behavior" is "so wrong" how is it that so many Men found it SO RIGHT and DID IT...
This book is very well written and has received a lot of positive critical acclaim. If you do not believe what the book has to say - what you do is check out for yourself what he has to say and see for yourself - he used source material which has survived. Then after reading this book ask yourself: if this happened in THIS town, what about the rest of the world - surely it happened elsewhere too. So then how is it "so wrong"? And how is it that so many found it "so right"? And ask yourself WHY was those of the "religious right" so upset about this and what is THEIR reason PERSONALLY for so much "objection"? Also REMEMBER THIS: God AND Christ NEVER SAID one time EVER - I REPEAT, EVER - anything about it being wrong for two Men to love each other including sexually. If it was wrong They certainly - THEMSELVES - would have said so - THEY NEVER DID!!! The Bible was written by MEN - over 40 - and over a long period of time each with their own perspectives and roughtly 250 YEARS - TWO HUNDRED FIFTY years + or - AFTER the death of Christ. I do not know about you but this is very strange how someone can say they know everything that happened with accuracy TWO HUNDRED AND FIFTY YEARS prior - people I know can't even remember with ACCURACY what they did the DAY before let alone 250 YEARS ago...
READ the book and see for yourself - you do not HAVE to agree with it or not - just READ it and see what it has to say - check out the sources used for yourself and do your own research on this subject. ASK questions of EVERYONE - BE OBJECTIVE and open minded about all things. That IS how TRUTH that is ACCURATE is found. To truly find God, He too would want you or I to do that - that IS how we FIND HIM...
Take Care, John H.
bio-chem said:your understanding of the bible is flawed. it wasnt written 250 years after the death of christ. it was compiled a few hundred years after his death. and i assume you are talking about the new teastament because the old teastament especially the torah or first 5 books of the old teastament pre-date christ by a long long long time. ask the jews they have some manuscripts you should investigate. you know part of the open minded to ALL THINGS right? and i know you will debate any scripture quoted from the bible about "men lying with men" but i will say this. there is NO evidence to suggest from extemporaneous writtings that homosexuality was ever accepted at any time period in Judeo-Christian history
John H. said:Nearly 50% of all Men engaged in Sex with each other....
Go to: http://www.oup.com/us/catalog/general/subject/HistoryWorld/European/Italy/?ci=0195122925&view=usa
The book FORBIDDEN FRIENDSHIPS, bi Michael Rocke (published by Oxford University Press) discusses Sexual relationships between Men circa 1400-1500 A. D. in Florence, Italy. (See the bibliography at the end of the book for sources of information)
If this happened as is shown in one town in Europe surely this happened elsewhere as well. If this type of Sexual Behavior is "so wrong" how is it that nearly 50% of the Male population (that were caught!) found it to be so right?
Read the book first. See what it has to say.
Take Care, John H.
thatguy said:It truly is said what a warped and angry view you have on religion...
While I disagree with the extent to which john H tries to "shove" his beleifs down everyone's throat, what U are quoting here is innacurate....From www.cathedralofhope.com:thatguy said:also look at the story of Sodom and Gomorrah in the Old Testament. That's the one where God (yes, God) destroyed two entire cities because they were full of gay men.
sorry to be gay again, but thats real nice!gococksDJS said:Damn man, why are 90% of the posts these days about gay shit? Im tired of reading about sucking dongs, swallowing wad and Souped Up jacking it to John H. This picture is needed...
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crazy_enough said:sorry to be gay again, but thats real nice!![]()
There's no apologies needed because yes that is a nice ass...crazy_enough said:sorry to be gay again, but thats real nice!![]()
Good, then we all agree.crazy_enough said:sorry to be gay again, but thats real nice!![]()
Hi ThatGuy,thatguy said:It truly is said what a warped and angry view you have on religion...
Souped_up said:This is one city and there is no REAL proof from real studies that have of a incidence of this % was happening. Even so SEXUALIY CAN BE CHANGED. I truly believe this. I think a gay person can become bisexual or vice o versa through hard influence or experimentation. So if the culture taught it was ok and even encouraged it then of course its possible a large percentage engaged in it.
Souped_up said:Hi thatguy,
What it comes down to HONESTLY - is John WANTS religion to FIT HIM- NOT HIM FIT religion.
Take care, Souped_up
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crazy_enough said:While I disagree with the extent to which john H tries to "shove" his beleifs down everyone's throat, what U are quoting here is innacurate....From www.cathedralofhope.com:
The Sodom Story
A chief text used to condemn homosexuality is the Sodom story (Genesis 19:1-29), often interpreted as showing God's abhorrence of homosexuality. In the story, two angels, in the form of men, are sent to the home of Lot in Sodom. While they are there, the men of the city ???both young and old, surrounded the house - everyone without exception??? and demanded that the visitors be brought out ???so that we might know them.??? (Genesis 19: 4-5) Lot begged the men to leave his guests alone and take his daughters instead. The men of the city became angry and stormed the door. As a result, they were all struck blind by the angels.
There are several problems with the traditional interpretation of this passage. Whether or not the intent of the men of Sodom was sexual, the inhospitality and injustice coming from the mob, and that generally characterized the community, were ???the sin of Sodom.??? (Ezekial 16:49-50, Isaiah 13:19, Jeremiah 49:18; 50:40) Jesus himself refers to the inhospitality of Sodom. (Luke 10:10-13) If the men were indeed homosexuals, then why would Lot offer them his daughters? What is threatened here is rape. The significant point, then, is that all rape is considered horrible by God. The story deserves another reading.
It should be noted that not all of the men of Sodom could have been homosexual or there would have been no need to destroy them. If they had all been homosexuals, they would have all died off leaving no heirs. Quite likely, they were a mixed group of evil men attempting to be abusive to people who were different. Ironically, lesbian and gay people are often the victim of that same sin.
Although the traditional interpretation of the Sodom story fails as an argument against homosexuality, there are several other Old Testament passages that do condemn homosexual acts. Again, it should be noted that these passages do not deal with same-sex orientation nor is there any reference to genital love between lesbian or gay persons.